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  • 25 Conversation Starter Questions on Sexuality
  • 50 Questions to ask your spouse besides “How was your day?”
  • 50 Ways to Engage Kids on a Budget
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  • Emotional Bank Account
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  • In Memory of Fr. Tom Ogg
  • Let’s Talk about Sex
  • Making Decisions as a Couple – 10 Steps
  • Marriage Check-up Exercise
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  • The Power of Positive: Examples of Converting Negatives about our Relationship to Positives
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  • Parenting

    Stages

    January 25, 2026 / No Comments

    Having kids comes with stages. There’s the infant-baby stage, the toddler stage, the school-age stage, the teenage stage, and the adult stage. Each of these stages presents its own set of challenges in our married relationship.

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    Nick and Jen

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    Parenting as a Team

    March 16, 2020

    Radical non-Parenting

    November 9, 2020

    Happy Holidays? In 2020? Yes!

    December 14, 2020
  • To DO list with Take Time-out for US! Checked off
    Behaviors,  Communication,  Decision to Love,  Intimacy,  Making Decisions,  Time

    Time-out!

    January 19, 2026 / No Comments

    Julie:  Let’s be honest—life gets busy. Between work, kids, errands, and the never-ending to-do list, it’s so easy for your marriage to slip down your list of priorities. You’re not alone if you’ve ever looked at your spouse at the end of a long day and realized you haven’t really connected, maybe not even had a real conversation, in days or even weeks. But here’s the thing – taking a time-out for your marriage isn’t just something that’s nice to do. It’s the foundation that keeps everything else in your life running smoothly.

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    John and Julie

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    Table Talk

    April 25, 2022

    3 Ways to Date Your Spouse

    September 30, 2024

    We Are More Than a Single Story

    December 12, 2022
  • Conflict,  Forgiveness,  Happiness,  Perseverance

    We’re Broken  

    January 12, 2026 / No Comments

    Your marriage is broken… or at least that’s how it seems. Here’s a secret… we’re ALL broken. Both as individuals and as couples, we’re all broken in some way. We’re in constant need of repair and healing. From our past and in the present. And… just acknowledging this is huge.  Although so many couples may seem perfect (or in a state of perpetual bliss), we all experience brokenness in marriage.  We all cycle through stages of romance, disappointment, and disillusionment. But there’s hope and strength in knowing that we don’t have to be perfect. We just need to be willing to work on growing together rather than apart. ROMANCE  KEN: This is the phase of our relationship I remember best: dating, honeymoon, and newlywed times. Boy-o-boy, were those good times. I spent a lot of time just yearning for those exact times to return.  DISAPPOINTMENT  JANINE: Shakespeare said, “Expectation is the root of all heartache.”  When…

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    Ken and Janine

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    I Married YOU, Not Your Family

    February 24, 2020
    Trash Talk, arguing over chores

    Trash Talk

    June 20, 2021
    Being right

    Is “Being Right” Really Right?

    March 20, 2023
  • Behaviors,  Decision to Love,  Uncategorized

    The Kindness Challenge

    January 4, 2026 / 1 Comment

    Kindness 'makes the world go round.' Welcome 2026 with a 30-Day Kindness Challenge. Pass it on!

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Spring Cleaning

    March 31, 2025

    Cultivating Happiness

    January 10, 2022

    We Are More Than a Single Story

    December 12, 2022
  • Uncategorized
    December 31, 2025 / No Comments

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Have a Safe and Happy Labor Day!

    September 2, 2024

    Teamwork in Marriage: Ditch the Scorekeeping Habit

    March 14, 2022

    The Kindness Challenge

    January 4, 2026
  • Uncategorized

    Blessings to You From The Couples Post

    December 25, 2025 / 2 Comments

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Happy Thanksgiving

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 25, 2024

    Celebrate!

    July 1, 2024

    Will It Matter Tomorrow?

    August 21, 2022
  • Behaviors,  Communication,  Decision to Love,  Differences

    Opposites Attract

    December 15, 2025 / 1 Comment

    Michelle: I love watching Dancing with the Stars. Chris: I love watching Ghost Hunters and I hate that I know the pros, past and present, who have been on Dancing with the Stars. Michelle: One of the pros, Mark Ballas, sings with his wife when he is not performing or rehearsing for a Tuesday night show. Chris: One afternoon, Michelle sent me the song, Highs and Lows, by Alexander Jean (the band formed by Mark Ballas and his wife Brittney Jean). Michelle sent it with a text that read, “This is so us.” Michelle: I remember as a child, hearing that opposites attract and being confused by the concept. My…

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    Chris and Michelle

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    A Good Time AND a Good Story

    August 17, 2026
    A clean slate

    A Clean Slate

    January 2, 2023
    being right

    To Be, or Not To Be…Right?

    September 8, 2025
  • Resilience

    The Waiting is the Hardest Part

    December 7, 2025 / No Comments

    Sometimes, waiting is the hardest part. This is a classic season of waiting as children of all ages wait for Christmas and Santa and presents. As Christians in the Season of Advent, we are called to wait for the coming of our Savior. This is historical and ever-current at the same time. Our calling is to wait well, both looking forward to the future while accepting the present as the gift that it is.

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    Nick and Jen

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    The Drift 

    August 26, 2024

    It Don’t Come Easy

    April 1, 2024

    Go Anywhere, Do Anything

    June 9, 2025
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    Little Things Mean a Lot

    December 1, 2025 / No Comments

    “Little Things Mean a Lot” was one of my mom’s favorite songs.  It starts off like this: “Blow me a kiss from across the room,Say I look nice when I’m not,Touch my hair as you pass my chair,Little things mean a lot.” These timeless lyrics are spot on – little things DO mean a lot.

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    John and Julie

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    Happy Labor Day!

    August 31, 2025

    Uh Oh, I Really Stepped In It Now

    February 16, 2025

    It Don’t Come Easy

    April 1, 2024
  • Happy Thanksgiving with fall pumpkins and leaves
    Holiday

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 24, 2025 / No Comments

    Happy Thanksgiving from The Couples Post family to yours. We wish you a wonderful Thanksgiving filled with family, food, and fun!

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    John and Julie
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