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    Stages

    January 25, 2026 / No Comments

    Having kids comes with stages. There’s the infant-baby stage, the toddler stage, the school-age stage, the teenage stage, and the adult stage. Each of these stages presents its own set of challenges in our married relationship.

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    Nick and Jen

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    August 20, 2019

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    October 15, 2018
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    Behaviors,  Communication,  Decision to Love,  Intimacy,  Making Decisions,  Time

    Time-out!

    January 19, 2026 / No Comments

    Julie:  Let’s be honest—life gets busy. Between work, kids, errands, and the never-ending to-do list, it’s so easy for your marriage to slip down your list of priorities. You’re not alone if you’ve ever looked at your spouse at the end of a long day and realized you haven’t really connected, maybe not even had a real conversation, in days or even weeks. But here’s the thing – taking a time-out for your marriage isn’t just something that’s nice to do. It’s the foundation that keeps everything else in your life running smoothly.

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    John and Julie

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    May 30, 2022
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    Top 10 Tips to Ruin Your Marriage 

    March 23, 2026
  • Conflict,  Forgiveness,  Happiness,  Perseverance

    We’re Broken  

    January 12, 2026 / No Comments

    Your marriage is broken… or at least that’s how it seems. Here’s a secret… we’re ALL broken. Both as individuals and as couples, we’re all broken in some way. We’re in constant need of repair and healing. From our past and in the present. And… just acknowledging this is huge.  Although so many couples may seem perfect (or in a state of perpetual bliss), we all experience brokenness in marriage.  We all cycle through stages of romance, disappointment, and disillusionment. But there’s hope and strength in knowing that we don’t have to be perfect. We just need to be willing to work on growing together rather than apart. ROMANCE  KEN: This is the phase of our relationship I remember best: dating, honeymoon, and newlywed times. Boy-o-boy, were those good times. I spent a lot of time just yearning for those exact times to return.  DISAPPOINTMENT  JANINE: Shakespeare said, “Expectation is the root of all heartache.”  When…

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    Ken and Janine

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    June 14, 2026

    Ready for a Marriage Check-up?

    February 16, 2026
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    Lost that Lovin’ feeling?

    May 29, 2023
  • Behaviors,  Decision to Love,  Uncategorized

    The Kindness Challenge

    January 4, 2026 / 1 Comment

    Kindness 'makes the world go round.' Welcome 2026 with a 30-Day Kindness Challenge. Pass it on!

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    April 20, 2026

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    October 23, 2023

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    February 28, 2023
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    December 31, 2025 / No Comments

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    May 1, 2023

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    December 17, 2023

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    March 17, 2024
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    Blessings to You From The Couples Post

    December 25, 2025 / 2 Comments

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    August 21, 2022

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    December 26, 2022

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    December 17, 2023
  • Behaviors,  Communication,  Decision to Love,  Differences

    Opposites Attract

    December 15, 2025 / 1 Comment

    Michelle: I love watching Dancing with the Stars. Chris: I love watching Ghost Hunters and I hate that I know the pros, past and present, who have been on Dancing with the Stars. Michelle: One of the pros, Mark Ballas, sings with his wife when he is not performing or rehearsing for a Tuesday night show. Chris: One afternoon, Michelle sent me the song, Highs and Lows, by Alexander Jean (the band formed by Mark Ballas and his wife Brittney Jean). Michelle sent it with a text that read, “This is so us.” Michelle: I remember as a child, hearing that opposites attract and being confused by the concept. My…

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    The Kindness Challenge

    January 4, 2026

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    August 21, 2023

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    March 9, 2026
  • Resilience

    The Waiting is the Hardest Part

    December 7, 2025 / No Comments

    Sometimes, waiting is the hardest part. This is a classic season of waiting as children of all ages wait for Christmas and Santa and presents. As Christians in the Season of Advent, we are called to wait for the coming of our Savior. This is historical and ever-current at the same time. Our calling is to wait well, both looking forward to the future while accepting the present as the gift that it is.

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    Nick and Jen

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    May 12, 2025
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    Little Things Mean a Lot

    December 1, 2025 / No Comments

    “Little Things Mean a Lot” was one of my mom’s favorite songs.  It starts off like this: “Blow me a kiss from across the room,Say I look nice when I’m not,Touch my hair as you pass my chair,Little things mean a lot.” These timeless lyrics are spot on – little things DO mean a lot.

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    May 26, 2026
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    Hibernation Is For Bears

    October 18, 2021
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    Holiday

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 24, 2025 / No Comments

    Happy Thanksgiving from The Couples Post family to yours. We wish you a wonderful Thanksgiving filled with family, food, and fun!

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    John and Julie
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