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    Coasting

    April 12, 2026 / No Comments

    Picture it – you’re on a bicycle, you’ve pedaled and pedaled and put some effort into making it go, and now you are coasting along. The wind in your face feels cool and refreshing and the effort you’re having to put in at this point is minimal – it’s like the bicycle could keep going forever on its own. But if you’re not having to peddle anymore and the bicycle is still moving it can mean only one thing: You’re heading downhill. Now imagine that this is a bicycle built for two and it represents your marriage. Coasting is a dangerous game to play. Downhill coasting can pick up speed…

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    Nick and Jen

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    Boosting the Bright Side

    July 26, 2021
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    Making Up is Hard to Do

    August 28, 2022

    The Grace of Healing

    April 28, 2025
  • Uncategorized

    Happy Easter from the Couples Post!

    April 6, 2026 / No Comments

    From all of us at The Couples Post, we hope you and your families had a wonderful Easter! We will be back next week with a new article to share.

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    Making Decisions as a Couple is a 3-Legged Race

    June 5, 2022

    Marriage Lessons Learned from Tango

    May 5, 2025

    Marriage is a Minefield

    May 22, 2022
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    Have a Blessed Holy Week

    March 31, 2026 / No Comments

    From all of us at the Couples Post, we hope you have a blessed Holy Week!

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    Will It Matter Tomorrow?

    August 21, 2022

    Celebrate!

    July 1, 2024

    Have New Year’s Resolutions Become Cliche?

    December 26, 2022
  • Uncategorized

    Sleeping with the Loser

    March 1, 2026 / No Comments

    Jen – I used to think that every fight had a winner and a loser. When you think about this in the context of marriage, it means that after a fight, someone has to sleep with the loser. We propose that there is a better way to fight so that both spouses win.

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    Don’t Roll Your Eyes and Say Whatever

    April 6, 2025

    The Shoe is on the Other Foot

    August 18, 2024
    Happy Thanksgiving

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 20, 2023
  • Parenting

    Stages

    January 25, 2026 / No Comments

    Having kids comes with stages. There’s the infant-baby stage, the toddler stage, the school-age stage, the teenage stage, and the adult stage. Each of these stages presents its own set of challenges in our married relationship.

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    We Come First

    October 22, 2018

    Ugh, Mom and Dad, no PDA!

    September 23, 2019
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    Beyond biology: Where Do Babies Come From?

    August 3, 2021
  • Resilience

    The Waiting is the Hardest Part

    December 7, 2025 / No Comments

    Sometimes, waiting is the hardest part. This is a classic season of waiting as children of all ages wait for Christmas and Santa and presents. As Christians in the Season of Advent, we are called to wait for the coming of our Savior. This is historical and ever-current at the same time. Our calling is to wait well, both looking forward to the future while accepting the present as the gift that it is.

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    It Don’t Come Easy

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    Hangry?

    May 12, 2025

    Go Anywhere, Do Anything

    June 9, 2025
  • Gratitude

    Sunrise, Sunset

    October 27, 2025 / No Comments

    As we look back on 30 years of marriage, we can see the ways our relationship has been like a journey from sunrise to sunset.

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    The Music of Us

    September 15, 2024

    Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

    October 27, 2024
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    I Get to Love You

    February 10, 2025
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    Happy Labor Day!

    August 31, 2025 / No Comments

    We at The Couples Post celebrate all the hard workers in our country whose effort benefits all of us in so many ways. However you’re celebrating Labor Day, we hope you have a wonderful one and we’ll be back next week with another post.

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    A Life Well Lived is an Unfinished Symphony

    February 23, 2025

    5 Lessons for a Howl of a Good Time

    June 14, 2021

    The Power of Gratitude in Marriage

    November 17, 2024
  • Decision to Love

    Haven’t we had this fight before?

    August 25, 2025 / No Comments

    Jen: Life, kids, work and extra-curricular activities suck up so much of our energy each day, that when it comes to interacting with each other, we are often at the end of our rope. When we are having a disagreement we’ve had more than once, I feel worn down and don’t want to deal with it.

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    Empty Nest – Syndrome or Summit?

    February 17, 2020

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    Advice From a Divorce Lawyer

    March 4, 2019
  • Happiness,  Listening

    Love Letters from Bellevue

    July 20, 2025 / 2 Comments

    Many of our readers have attended a Worldwide Marriage Encounter Experience and sought to bring the tools home and use them every day. Little did we know, a couple of our readers, Joe and Helen have truly set the bar for making love letters a daily part of their lives. Married for more than 71 years now, we at The Couples Post are blessed and humbled to have heard their story and have this chance to share it with you in this touching video from the Eric’s Heroes feature on KOMO News out of Seattle. We invite you to listen to their story and hope you’re as inspired as we…

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    Little Wonders

    June 12, 2024

    Show Me Who Your Friends Are…

    January 28, 2024
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    Kudos To The Tired Dad

    March 24, 2025
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