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  • Uncategorized

    Playing Games

    July 19, 2026 / No Comments

    “You sunk my battleship!” was a TV ad tagline we used to hear about a popular game when we were younger. So many memories were about fun games we would play. But in our marriage, playing games can be dangerous.

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    Nick and Jen

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    It Don’t Come Easy

    April 1, 2024

    Happy 250th birthday, America!

    June 30, 2026

    Memorial Day

    May 26, 2026
  • Perseverance

    If you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain

    May 31, 2026 / No Comments

    Dolly Parton once said, “The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain.”

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    Angel With a Broken Wing

    January 19, 2025

    3 Ways to Affair-Proof Your Marriage

    August 5, 2019
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    What is the Secret to a Happy Marriage?

    February 27, 2022
  • Uncategorized

    Memorial Day

    May 26, 2026 / No Comments

    We at the Couples Post are grateful to all of the men and women in the armed forces who have given their lives for our freedom. We hope your families all have a great Memorial Day and we will see you next week for another post.

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    Sleeping with the Loser

    March 1, 2026

    Autumn is Proof that Change is Beautiful

    October 6, 2024

    The Power of Gratitude in Marriage

    November 17, 2024
  • Accountability

    Coasting

    April 12, 2026 / No Comments

    Picture it – you’re on a bicycle, you’ve pedaled and pedaled and put some effort into making it go, and now you are coasting along. The wind in your face feels cool and refreshing and the effort you’re having to put in at this point is minimal – it’s like the bicycle could keep going forever on its own. But if you’re not having to peddle anymore and the bicycle is still moving it can mean only one thing: You’re heading downhill. Now imagine that this is a bicycle built for two and it represents your marriage. Coasting is a dangerous game to play. Downhill coasting can pick up speed…

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    Mistakes Made During Conflict

    May 18, 2026

    Get Real!

    October 30, 2023

    Emotional Baggage

    February 3, 2026
  • Uncategorized

    Happy Easter from the Couples Post!

    April 6, 2026 / No Comments

    From all of us at The Couples Post, we hope you and your families had a wonderful Easter! We will be back next week with a new article to share.

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    Don’t Roll Your Eyes and Say Whatever

    April 6, 2025

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    July 19, 2026
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    The Spontaneity Spark

    May 16, 2022
  • Uncategorized

    Have a Blessed Holy Week

    March 31, 2026 / No Comments

    From all of us at the Couples Post, we hope you have a blessed Holy Week!

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    Teamwork in Marriage: Ditch the Scorekeeping Habit

    March 14, 2022
    Merry Christmas

    Merry Christmas!

    December 23, 2024

    Our Anti-Resolution List

    January 1, 2024
  • Uncategorized

    Sleeping with the Loser

    March 1, 2026 / No Comments

    Jen – I used to think that every fight had a winner and a loser. When you think about this in the context of marriage, it means that after a fight, someone has to sleep with the loser. We propose that there is a better way to fight so that both spouses win.

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    In Sickness and in Health… Even During Cold and Flu Season

    March 17, 2024
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    F.I.N.E.

    September 6, 2021

    Playing Games

    July 19, 2026
  • Parenting

    Stages

    January 25, 2026 / No Comments

    Having kids comes with stages. There’s the infant-baby stage, the toddler stage, the school-age stage, the teenage stage, and the adult stage. Each of these stages presents its own set of challenges in our married relationship.

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    3 Tips to Make Your Marriage Thrive

    August 20, 2019

    5 Reasons You Need a Getaway Without Kids

    September 12, 2021

    Radical non-Parenting

    November 9, 2020
  • Resilience

    The Waiting is the Hardest Part

    December 7, 2025 / No Comments

    Sometimes, waiting is the hardest part. This is a classic season of waiting as children of all ages wait for Christmas and Santa and presents. As Christians in the Season of Advent, we are called to wait for the coming of our Savior. This is historical and ever-current at the same time. Our calling is to wait well, both looking forward to the future while accepting the present as the gift that it is.

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    Hangry?

    May 12, 2025
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    The Drift 

    August 26, 2024

    Go Anywhere, Do Anything

    June 9, 2025
  • Gratitude

    Sunrise, Sunset

    October 27, 2025 / No Comments

    As we look back on 30 years of marriage, we can see the ways our relationship has been like a journey from sunrise to sunset.

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    I Get to Love You

    February 10, 2025

    Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

    October 27, 2024

    Positively Live

    July 28, 2025
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