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    Coasting

    April 12, 2026 / No Comments

    Picture it – you’re on a bicycle, you’ve pedaled and pedaled and put some effort into making it go, and now you are coasting along. The wind in your face feels cool and refreshing and the effort you’re having to put in at this point is minimal – it’s like the bicycle could keep going forever on its own. But if you’re not having to peddle anymore and the bicycle is still moving it can mean only one thing: You’re heading downhill. Now imagine that this is a bicycle built for two and it represents your marriage. Coasting is a dangerous game to play. Downhill coasting can pick up speed…

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    Nick and Jen

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    July 19, 2021
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    Happy Easter from the Couples Post!

    April 6, 2026 / No Comments

    From all of us at The Couples Post, we hope you and your families had a wonderful Easter! We will be back next week with a new article to share.

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    The Kindness Challenge

    January 4, 2026

    Have a Blessed Holy Week

    March 31, 2026

    Blessings to You From The Couples Post

    December 25, 2025
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    Have a Blessed Holy Week

    March 31, 2026 / No Comments

    From all of us at the Couples Post, we hope you have a blessed Holy Week!

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    Happy New Year!

    December 29, 2024
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    F.I.N.E.

    September 6, 2021

    5 Bite Sized Ways to Become Better

    December 12, 2023
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    Sleeping with the Loser

    March 1, 2026 / No Comments

    Jen – I used to think that every fight had a winner and a loser. When you think about this in the context of marriage, it means that after a fight, someone has to sleep with the loser. We propose that there is a better way to fight so that both spouses win.

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    Happy Thanksgiving

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 20, 2023

    Hibernation Is For Bears

    October 18, 2021
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    Gratitude — It’s All Around US

    November 22, 2021
  • Parenting

    Stages

    January 25, 2026 / No Comments

    Having kids comes with stages. There’s the infant-baby stage, the toddler stage, the school-age stage, the teenage stage, and the adult stage. Each of these stages presents its own set of challenges in our married relationship.

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    The Empty Nest Revisited

    November 28, 2022

    5 Reasons You Need a Getaway Without Kids

    September 12, 2021
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    Co-parenting My Child

    October 11, 2021
  • Resilience

    The Waiting is the Hardest Part

    December 7, 2025 / No Comments

    Sometimes, waiting is the hardest part. This is a classic season of waiting as children of all ages wait for Christmas and Santa and presents. As Christians in the Season of Advent, we are called to wait for the coming of our Savior. This is historical and ever-current at the same time. Our calling is to wait well, both looking forward to the future while accepting the present as the gift that it is.

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    May 12, 2025

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    February 19, 2024
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    March 23, 2026
  • Gratitude

    Sunrise, Sunset

    October 27, 2025 / No Comments

    As we look back on 30 years of marriage, we can see the ways our relationship has been like a journey from sunrise to sunset.

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    I Get to Love You

    February 10, 2025

    Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

    October 27, 2024

    Positively Live

    July 28, 2025
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    Happy Labor Day!

    August 31, 2025 / No Comments

    We at The Couples Post celebrate all the hard workers in our country whose effort benefits all of us in so many ways. However you’re celebrating Labor Day, we hope you have a wonderful one and we’ll be back next week with another post.

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  • Decision to Love

    Haven’t we had this fight before?

    August 25, 2025 / No Comments

    Jen: Life, kids, work and extra-curricular activities suck up so much of our energy each day, that when it comes to interacting with each other, we are often at the end of our rope. When we are having a disagreement we’ve had more than once, I feel worn down and don’t want to deal with it.

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    Our “One of a Kind” Marriage

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  • Happiness,  Listening

    Love Letters from Bellevue

    July 20, 2025 / 2 Comments

    Many of our readers have attended a Worldwide Marriage Encounter Experience and sought to bring the tools home and use them every day. Little did we know, a couple of our readers, Joe and Helen have truly set the bar for making love letters a daily part of their lives. Married for more than 71 years now, we at The Couples Post are blessed and humbled to have heard their story and have this chance to share it with you in this touching video from the Eric’s Heroes feature on KOMO News out of Seattle. We invite you to listen to their story and hope you’re as inspired as we…

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    June 16, 2025

    We’re Broken  

    January 12, 2026
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