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    If you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain

    May 31, 2026 / No Comments

    Dolly Parton once said, “The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain.”

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    Marriage – the Olympics of Relationships

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    Marriage Role Models

    February 19, 2024
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    Memorial Day

    May 26, 2026 / No Comments

    We at the Couples Post are grateful to all of the men and women in the armed forces who have given their lives for our freedom. We hope your families all have a great Memorial Day and we will see you next week for another post.

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    Little Things Mean a Lot

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    Gratitude — It’s All Around US

    November 22, 2021

    Will It Matter Tomorrow?

    August 21, 2022
  • Accountability

    Coasting

    April 12, 2026 / No Comments

    Picture it – you’re on a bicycle, you’ve pedaled and pedaled and put some effort into making it go, and now you are coasting along. The wind in your face feels cool and refreshing and the effort you’re having to put in at this point is minimal – it’s like the bicycle could keep going forever on its own. But if you’re not having to peddle anymore and the bicycle is still moving it can mean only one thing: You’re heading downhill. Now imagine that this is a bicycle built for two and it represents your marriage. Coasting is a dangerous game to play. Downhill coasting can pick up speed…

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    Help Us Make The Couples Post Better

    May 8, 2022

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    March 9, 2026

    Marriage Is a Teeter-Totter Ride

    July 18, 2022
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    Happy Easter from the Couples Post!

    April 6, 2026 / No Comments

    From all of us at The Couples Post, we hope you and your families had a wonderful Easter! We will be back next week with a new article to share.

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    October 6, 2024
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    Happy Labor Day!

    September 5, 2022

    Will It Matter Tomorrow?

    August 21, 2022
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    Have a Blessed Holy Week

    March 31, 2026 / No Comments

    From all of us at the Couples Post, we hope you have a blessed Holy Week!

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    December 12, 2023

    Have New Year’s Resolutions Become Cliche?

    December 26, 2022
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    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 20, 2023
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    Sleeping with the Loser

    March 1, 2026 / No Comments

    Jen – I used to think that every fight had a winner and a loser. When you think about this in the context of marriage, it means that after a fight, someone has to sleep with the loser. We propose that there is a better way to fight so that both spouses win.

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    March 31, 2026

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    April 20, 2025

    The Kindness Challenge

    January 4, 2026
  • Parenting

    Stages

    January 25, 2026 / No Comments

    Having kids comes with stages. There’s the infant-baby stage, the toddler stage, the school-age stage, the teenage stage, and the adult stage. Each of these stages presents its own set of challenges in our married relationship.

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    Married Couples: Are We Too Busy?

    December 6, 2021

    Happy Holidays? In 2020? Yes!

    December 14, 2020

    Getting Teens to Talk

    February 2, 2020
  • Resilience

    The Waiting is the Hardest Part

    December 7, 2025 / No Comments

    Sometimes, waiting is the hardest part. This is a classic season of waiting as children of all ages wait for Christmas and Santa and presents. As Christians in the Season of Advent, we are called to wait for the coming of our Savior. This is historical and ever-current at the same time. Our calling is to wait well, both looking forward to the future while accepting the present as the gift that it is.

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    August 26, 2024

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    January 19, 2025

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    April 1, 2024
  • Gratitude

    Sunrise, Sunset

    October 27, 2025 / No Comments

    As we look back on 30 years of marriage, we can see the ways our relationship has been like a journey from sunrise to sunset.

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    I Get to Love You

    February 10, 2025

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    June 14, 2026

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    July 28, 2025
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    Happy Labor Day!

    August 31, 2025 / No Comments

    We at The Couples Post celebrate all the hard workers in our country whose effort benefits all of us in so many ways. However you’re celebrating Labor Day, we hope you have a wonderful one and we’ll be back next week with another post.

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    Happy Labor Day!

    September 5, 2022
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    Little Things Mean a Lot

    December 1, 2025
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    Have a Safe and Happy Labor Day!

    September 2, 2024
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