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  • Behaviors,  Conflict,  Decision to Love,  Gratitude,  Transformation

    Sacrificing vs. Generosity in Marriage: A Paradigm Shift

    June 14, 2026 / No Comments

    Sacrificing in marriage can lead to resentment. A paradigm shift to reciprocal acts of generosity can help to heal resentment.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Why Go It Alone

    April 3, 2023

    $#*! My Spouse Says

    September 19, 2023
    Body language

    Body Language

    November 13, 2023
  • Intimacy,  Playfulness,  Romance,  Sex

    Hurkle-durkling As Emotional Foreplay

    April 26, 2026 / No Comments

    Whether it be a lazy mid-April morning with a blanket of snow or a 60-degree day in December, any day is a perfect day to Hurkle-durkle. Think of it as Emotional Foreplay which begins as soon as we open our eyes to each other at the onset of a new day.

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    Time-out!

    January 19, 2026
    Opportunities for intimacy

    Opportunities for Intimacy

    December 16, 2024
    World turned upside-down

    The World Turned Upside-Down

    October 13, 2025
  • Uncategorized

    Lucky in Marriage

    March 15, 2026 / No Comments

    A good marriage takes work and commitment, but sometimes we just get Lucky. Just for fun during this week of Irish celebrations and shenanigans we chose to focus on the times when we just got Lucky in Marriage.

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    Autumn is Proof that Change is Beautiful

    October 6, 2024

    Be Curious

    December 17, 2023

    Teamwork in Marriage: Ditch the Scorekeeping Habit

    March 14, 2022
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    After the Thrill is Gone . . . How Do We Make Love Stay?

    February 8, 2026 / 2 Comments

    We recently heard the songs After the Thrill is Gone (Eagles) and Make Love Stay (Dan Fogelberg) and they have been an ear-worm, and source of reminiscing for us. Youth never imagines the thrill being gone, but it happens to all of us.

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    Happy Labor Day!

    August 31, 2025

    Making Decisions as a Couple is a 3-Legged Race

    June 5, 2022

    Blessings to You From The Couples Post

    December 25, 2025
  • Behaviors,  Decision to Love,  Uncategorized

    The Kindness Challenge

    January 4, 2026 / 1 Comment

    Kindness 'makes the world go round.' Welcome 2026 with a 30-Day Kindness Challenge. Pass it on!

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Mistakes Made During Conflict

    May 18, 2026

    Control in This Thing Called Life

    June 24, 2024

    Yelping My Spouse Round One

    April 20, 2026
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    December 31, 2025 / No Comments

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    Lessons Learned We Have

    May 1, 2023

    Marriage is a Minefield

    May 22, 2022

    In Sickness and in Health… Even During Cold and Flu Season

    March 17, 2024
  • Uncategorized

    Blessings to You From The Couples Post

    December 25, 2025 / 2 Comments

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    Marriage Lessons Learned from Tango

    May 5, 2025

    Autumn is Proof that Change is Beautiful

    October 6, 2024

    Start Intentional Gifting and Celebrate Your Valentine All Year

    February 14, 2022
  • Playfulness

    Play!

    November 9, 2025 / No Comments

    Play is not just for kids. It strengthens bonds as a married couple and as a family. Studies have shown play builds trust and boosts the emotional and mental well-being of children and parents. Play adds joy to life and who doesn’t need that! Play is an outlet for stress. Unlike scrolling or vegging in front of the TV, active play burns calories and connects us with others in real time.

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    That’s What Friends Are For

    June 3, 2024
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    The Spontaneity Spark

    May 16, 2022
    Married Couple Too Busy

    Married Couples: Are We Too Busy?

    December 6, 2021
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    Into the Weeds Naked

    October 5, 2025 / 4 Comments

    Solving recurring arguments involves setting boundaries, getting the root of the problem with gentleness. Let down your defenses, nurture your relationship and fight naked@

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    5 Bite Sized Ways to Become Better

    December 12, 2023

    Happy Labor Day!

    August 31, 2025

    December 25, 2023
  • Making Decisions

    Martha & Mary — 2 Gifts, One Love

    August 2, 2025 / No Comments

    We have been reflecting on the Gospel story of Martha and Mary (Luke 10:38-42). What can we learn from this famous (or infamous) encounter? As married couples we have different gifts, but One Love. We want to share our twist on this Gospel, focusing on the gift of One Love.

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    Boosting the Bright Side

    July 26, 2021

    4 Steps to Resolve Disagreements in Marriage

    January 16, 2022

    Getting More of What You Want in Your Marriage

    February 21, 2021
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