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  • Accountability,  Conflict,  Listening

    The Infamous But

    November 1, 2026 / No Comments

    Eliminating the word 'but' during times of tension and replacing it with a thoughtful 'and' changes the tone of the conversation to one of inclusion.

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    July 19, 2026
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    Running Up A Downward Escalator 

    May 11, 2026

    Opposites Don’t Attract — They Attack

    January 29, 2023
  • Accountability,  Behaviors,  Communication,  Uncategorized

    FlatTire #2

    September 20, 2026 / 2 Comments

    Summers can be crazy and wonderful. Then you get Flat Tire #2. Summers are a wonderful time to reconnect with family and friends, enjoy longer days and leaisure time at the lake or cabin. Ours got crazy with a backed up septic system at the cabin and then Flat Tire #2.

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    Us Against the World

    August 22, 2021

    Marriage Is a Teeter-Totter Ride

    July 18, 2022

    What is Love Asking of Me Now?

    May 6, 2024
  • Behaviors,  Conflict,  Decision to Love,  Gratitude,  Transformation

    Sacrificing vs. Generosity in Marriage: A Paradigm Shift

    June 14, 2026 / No Comments

    Sacrificing in marriage can lead to resentment. A paradigm shift to reciprocal acts of generosity can help to heal resentment.

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    What is Love Asking of Me Now?

    May 6, 2024

    $#*! My Spouse Says

    September 19, 2023

    Tis the Season to Ruin Holidays

    November 11, 2024
  • Intimacy,  Playfulness,  Romance,  Sex

    Hurkle-durkling As Emotional Foreplay

    April 26, 2026 / No Comments

    Whether it be a lazy mid-April morning with a blanket of snow or a 60-degree day in December, any day is a perfect day to Hurkle-durkle. Think of it as Emotional Foreplay which begins as soon as we open our eyes to each other at the onset of a new day.

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    The World Turned Upside-Down

    October 13, 2025
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    Listen, Linda!!! Active Listening In Marriage

    August 3, 2026
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    Prioritizing US

    October 5, 2026
  • Uncategorized

    Lucky in Marriage

    March 15, 2026 / No Comments

    A good marriage takes work and commitment, but sometimes we just get Lucky. Just for fun during this week of Irish celebrations and shenanigans we chose to focus on the times when we just got Lucky in Marriage.

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    Have a Safe and Happy Labor Day!

    September 2, 2024

    The Whole is Greater than the Sum of its Parts

    June 8, 2026

    Happy 250th birthday, America!

    June 30, 2026
  • Uncategorized

    After the Thrill is Gone . . . How Do We Make Love Stay?

    February 8, 2026 / 2 Comments

    We recently heard the songs After the Thrill is Gone (Eagles) and Make Love Stay (Dan Fogelberg) and they have been an ear-worm, and source of reminiscing for us. Youth never imagines the thrill being gone, but it happens to all of us.

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    December 25, 2023

    Don’t Roll Your Eyes and Say Whatever

    April 6, 2025

    Memorial Day 2025

    May 26, 2025
  • Behaviors,  Decision to Love,  Uncategorized

    The Kindness Challenge

    January 4, 2026 / 1 Comment

    Kindness 'makes the world go round.' Welcome 2026 with a 30-Day Kindness Challenge. Pass it on!

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    3 Ways to Date Your Spouse

    September 30, 2024

    Control in This Thing Called Life

    June 24, 2024

    $#*! My Spouse Says

    September 19, 2023
  • Uncategorized
    December 31, 2025 / No Comments

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    The Shoe is on the Other Foot

    August 18, 2024

    A Life Well Lived is an Unfinished Symphony

    February 23, 2025

    December 25, 2023
  • Uncategorized

    Blessings to You From The Couples Post

    December 25, 2025 / 2 Comments

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    Memorial Day 2025

    May 26, 2025

    Don’t Roll Your Eyes and Say Whatever

    April 6, 2025

    The Power of Gratitude in Marriage

    November 17, 2024
  • Playfulness

    Play!

    November 9, 2025 / No Comments

    Play is not just for kids. It strengthens bonds as a married couple and as a family. Studies have shown play builds trust and boosts the emotional and mental well-being of children and parents. Play adds joy to life and who doesn’t need that! Play is an outlet for stress. Unlike scrolling or vegging in front of the TV, active play burns calories and connects us with others in real time.

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    3 Tips to Reduce Holiday Stress

    November 14, 2022

    Show Me Who Your Friends Are…

    January 28, 2024

    Marriage in 3-D 👓

    June 26, 2022
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