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  • Behaviors,  Conflict,  Decision to Love,  Gratitude,  Transformation

    Sacrificing vs. Generosity in Marriage: A Paradigm Shift

    June 14, 2026 / No Comments

    Sacrificing in marriage can lead to resentment. A paradigm shift to reciprocal acts of generosity can help to heal resentment.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Wash War I

    March 9, 2026
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    The Busy Train

    January 15, 2024

    Marriage Wake-Up Calls

    August 7, 2023
  • Intimacy,  Playfulness,  Romance,  Sex

    Hurkle-durkling As Emotional Foreplay

    April 26, 2026 / No Comments

    Whether it be a lazy mid-April morning with a blanket of snow or a 60-degree day in December, any day is a perfect day to Hurkle-durkle. Think of it as Emotional Foreplay which begins as soon as we open our eyes to each other at the onset of a new day.

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    You’re the Inspiration

    June 1, 2025

    Someday Your Children Will Leave Home

    June 16, 2025
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    Opportunities for Intimacy

    December 16, 2024
  • Uncategorized

    Lucky in Marriage

    March 15, 2026 / No Comments

    A good marriage takes work and commitment, but sometimes we just get Lucky. Just for fun during this week of Irish celebrations and shenanigans we chose to focus on the times when we just got Lucky in Marriage.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Sleeping with the Loser

    March 1, 2026

    Happy 250th birthday, America!

    June 30, 2026
    Merry Christmas

    Merry Christmas!

    December 23, 2024
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    After the Thrill is Gone . . . How Do We Make Love Stay?

    February 8, 2026 / 2 Comments

    We recently heard the songs After the Thrill is Gone (Eagles) and Make Love Stay (Dan Fogelberg) and they have been an ear-worm, and source of reminiscing for us. Youth never imagines the thrill being gone, but it happens to all of us.

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    Happy Labor Day!

    September 5, 2022

    The Whole is Greater than the Sum of its Parts

    June 8, 2026
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    Gratitude — It’s All Around US

    November 22, 2021
  • Behaviors,  Decision to Love,  Uncategorized

    The Kindness Challenge

    January 4, 2026 / 1 Comment

    Kindness 'makes the world go round.' Welcome 2026 with a 30-Day Kindness Challenge. Pass it on!

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    Is There Technoference in Your Marriage?

    June 13, 2022

    Marriage Wake-Up Calls

    August 7, 2023
    Busy train

    The Busy Train

    January 15, 2024
  • Uncategorized
    December 31, 2025 / No Comments

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    Celebrate!

    July 1, 2024
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    The World Turned Upside-Down

    October 13, 2025

    A Life Well Lived is an Unfinished Symphony

    February 23, 2025
  • Uncategorized

    Blessings to You From The Couples Post

    December 25, 2025 / 2 Comments

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    Teamwork in Marriage: Ditch the Scorekeeping Habit

    March 14, 2022

    Memorial Day

    May 26, 2026

    Easter Blessings:

    April 20, 2025
  • Playfulness

    Play!

    November 9, 2025 / No Comments

    Play is not just for kids. It strengthens bonds as a married couple and as a family. Studies have shown play builds trust and boosts the emotional and mental well-being of children and parents. Play adds joy to life and who doesn’t need that! Play is an outlet for stress. Unlike scrolling or vegging in front of the TV, active play burns calories and connects us with others in real time.

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    3 Tips to Reduce Holiday Stress

    November 14, 2022

    Married Singles

    August 21, 2023
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    The Busy Train

    January 15, 2024
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    Into the Weeds Naked

    October 5, 2025 / 4 Comments

    Solving recurring arguments involves setting boundaries, getting the root of the problem with gentleness. Let down your defenses, nurture your relationship and fight naked@

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    In Sickness and in Health… Even During Cold and Flu Season

    March 17, 2024
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    The Spontaneity Spark

    May 16, 2022

    5 Bite Sized Ways to Become Better

    December 12, 2023
  • Making Decisions

    Martha & Mary — 2 Gifts, One Love

    August 2, 2025 / No Comments

    We have been reflecting on the Gospel story of Martha and Mary (Luke 10:38-42). What can we learn from this famous (or infamous) encounter? As married couples we have different gifts, but One Love. We want to share our twist on this Gospel, focusing on the gift of One Love.

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    The Benefit of the Doubt

    August 31, 2020
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    The Super-Power of Affirmation

    February 26, 2024
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    In Sickness and In Health

    September 20, 2021
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