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    Blessings to You From The Couples Post

    December 25, 2025 / 2 Comments

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    December 29, 2024

    Marriage Lessons Learned from Tango

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  • Behaviors,  Communication,  Decision to Love,  Differences

    Opposites Attract

    December 15, 2025 / 1 Comment

    Michelle: I love watching Dancing with the Stars. Chris: I love watching Ghost Hunters and I hate that I know the pros, past and present, who have been on Dancing with the Stars. Michelle: One of the pros, Mark Ballas, sings with his wife when he is not performing or rehearsing for a Tuesday night show. Chris: One afternoon, Michelle sent me the song, Highs and Lows, by Alexander Jean (the band formed by Mark Ballas and his wife Brittney Jean). Michelle sent it with a text that read, “This is so us.” Michelle: I remember as a child, hearing that opposites attract and being confused by the concept. My…

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  • Resilience

    The Waiting is the Hardest Part

    December 7, 2025 / No Comments

    Sometimes, waiting is the hardest part. This is a classic season of waiting as children of all ages wait for Christmas and Santa and presents. As Christians in the Season of Advent, we are called to wait for the coming of our Savior. This is historical and ever-current at the same time. Our calling is to wait well, both looking forward to the future while accepting the present as the gift that it is.

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    Nick and Jen

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    February 19, 2024
    Common marriage mistakes

    Top 10 Tips to Ruin Your Marriage 

    March 23, 2026

    Lessons on Marriage from a Houseplant

    January 21, 2024
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    Little Things Mean a Lot

    December 1, 2025 / No Comments

    “Little Things Mean a Lot” was one of my mom’s favorite songs.  It starts off like this: “Blow me a kiss from across the room,Say I look nice when I’m not,Touch my hair as you pass my chair,Little things mean a lot.” These timeless lyrics are spot on – little things DO mean a lot.

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    John and Julie

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    March 6, 2023

    It Don’t Come Easy

    April 1, 2024

    Have a Blessed Holy Week

    March 31, 2026
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    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 24, 2025 / No Comments

    Happy Thanksgiving from The Couples Post family to yours. We wish you a wonderful Thanksgiving filled with family, food, and fun!

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    John and Julie
  • Communication,  Conflict,  Making Decisions,  Stress

    Decisions, Decisions

    November 17, 2025 / No Comments

    Learn a simplified decision-making process for married couples. When facing hard choices, remember that "we" come first. This article outlines how to pause, zoom out, and make important decisions together for a stronger marriage.

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    Ken and Janine

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    November 13, 2023

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    July 26, 2021

    Verbal Judo – Harmonizing Your Tone of Voice

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  • Playfulness

    Play!

    November 9, 2025 / No Comments

    Play is not just for kids. It strengthens bonds as a married couple and as a family. Studies have shown play builds trust and boosts the emotional and mental well-being of children and parents. Play adds joy to life and who doesn’t need that! Play is an outlet for stress. Unlike scrolling or vegging in front of the TV, active play burns calories and connects us with others in real time.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Carefree Timelessness

    August 18, 2025
  • Behaviors,  Happiness

    What Was Your Success Today?

    November 3, 2025 / No Comments

    Michelle: When I was younger, I loved watching the Summer Olympics. I especially remember watching the 1984 Summer Olympics in Los Angeles, California. There are two reasons that specific Olympics reigns supreme in my memories. The first reason is that my grandparents lived in Los Angeles and they had tickets to many of the track and field events. While my grandparents brought back some Olympic pins as souvenirs, it was my grandfather’s reverence when telling us about President Ronald Reagan opening the Olympic Games and my grandmother’s stories of all of the amazing athletes they saw from countries all over the world, that pulled me in. But my second reason…

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    Chris and Michelle

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    November 11, 2024

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    January 19, 2026
  • Gratitude

    Sunrise, Sunset

    October 27, 2025 / No Comments

    As we look back on 30 years of marriage, we can see the ways our relationship has been like a journey from sunrise to sunset.

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    Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

    October 27, 2024

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    July 28, 2025

    An Attitude of Gratitude

    August 4, 2024
  • friends,  Playfulness

    Relationships: Why Your Circle Matters

    October 20, 2025 / No Comments

    “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” – Jim Rohn Whether we realize it or not, the people we spend time with are shaping our thoughts, habits, and even our values.  When we spend time with positive, purpose-driven people, we find ourselves growing in that direction. But the opposite is also true: if we surround ourselves with people who are negative, cynical, or self-destructive, we’ll drift that way without even realizing it. The Influence of Friends on Marriage A Pew Research study found that people were 75% more likely to divorce if a close friend or family member divorced. Even having a friend of…

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    June 3, 2024

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    June 9, 2025
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