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  • Couple dancing on the beach Just. Do. It.
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    Just. Do. It. Part II

    November 9, 2026 / No Comments

    Ken and Janine just did a post a few weeks ago with a very similar title encouraging our readers to take their marriage to the next level by attending a Worldwide Marriage Encounter Experience. We highly recommend as well! In the meantime, we decided to follow up with our own version of Just. Do. It. It will hopefully touch your hearts and encourage you to REALLY take stock and take action in your relationship. Almost exactly three years ago,we had just gotten back from the trip of a lifetime – an African safari.  It was an unforgettable experience.  The variety of animals we saw, the beautiful landscapes that were so…

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    John and Julie

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    Prioritizing US

    October 5, 2026 / 1 Comment

     Julie: Grandkids, family activities, visiting sick relatives and friends, volunteer work, visiting our kids, jobs, the house, the bills – life has a million distractions. It’s so easy to let our lenses of love get out of focus and prioritize these other things over our sexual relationship. Our sexual flame flickers as we behave more like roommates than lovers.

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    A Good Time AND a Good Story

    August 17, 2026 / No Comments

    Ahhhhhh…the crackle of the campfire, the smell of pine trees, the stars stretching out across the sky – for us, camping in the great outdoors is the ultimate escape. But let’s be honest – @#$% happens and Mother Nature loves a good laugh. Over the years, we’ve endured raccoons robbing us blind, strangers stealing our cooler, our tents literally floating – the list goes on.  As our niece likes to say, “It’s either a good time or a good story.”

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    Family Ties

    July 6, 2026 / No Comments

    Julie: We’ve just had the privilege of living in the funny, dramatic, wildly unpredictable world of our 13-year-old twin nieces as we took them camping with us.  We’ve taken them for a weekend each year so that John’s sister and our brother-in-law can have time to reconnect and focus on just them (plus it’s fun for us!).  It’s something we look forward to and that has helped strengthen our family ties not only with our nieces, but also our siblings. 

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    June 30, 2026 / No Comments

    Have a safe and fun celebration – from The Couples Post Family to yours.

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    May 4, 2026 / No Comments

    John:  “Today is the first day of the BEST of your life.”  I retired last Friday after 41 years of working in the IT field.  That quote was on the card I received from the team I led.  While it is certainly appropriate for retirement, it also rings true in our everyday life.  Every day, we can choose to live our best life, regardless of the changes, circumstances, and chaos around us. 

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    Marriage – the Olympics of Relationships

    February 23, 2026 / 2 Comments

    Julie: John and I have really enjoyed watching the Olympics these past couple of weeks. Medals are won by fractions of a second. Partnerships are tested under pressure. Expectations run high. There is disappointment and elation. Marriage is the Olympics of Relationships. Both require preparation, endurance, resilience, and an unwavering commitment to something bigger than yourself.

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    Time-out!

    January 19, 2026 / No Comments

    Julie:  Let’s be honest—life gets busy. Between work, kids, errands, and the never-ending to-do list, it’s so easy for your marriage to slip down your list of priorities. You’re not alone if you’ve ever looked at your spouse at the end of a long day and realized you haven’t really connected, maybe not even had a real conversation, in days or even weeks. But here’s the thing – taking a time-out for your marriage isn’t just something that’s nice to do. It’s the foundation that keeps everything else in your life running smoothly.

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    Little Things Mean a Lot

    December 1, 2025 / No Comments

    “Little Things Mean a Lot” was one of my mom’s favorite songs.  It starts off like this: “Blow me a kiss from across the room,Say I look nice when I’m not,Touch my hair as you pass my chair,Little things mean a lot.” These timeless lyrics are spot on – little things DO mean a lot.

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