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  • Children,  Gratitude,  Intimacy,  Playfulness

    Everything We Need to Know We Learned…From a Baby? 

    May 19, 2025 / 1 Comment

    Grandparenthood has been all we dreamed it would be – and more.  We have loved every moment!  Our grandson is nearly 7 months old and changing rapidly.  He is learning new things every day.   As he lay peacefully sleeping in my arms recharging his little batteries, it dawned on me that he isn’t the only one learning.  In many ways, the student has become the teacher. We have learned so much from our little guy! 

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    Spring Cleaning

    March 31, 2025 / 1 Comment

    JULIE In the wee hours of the morning of March 20, Spring quietly tiptoed in while we were sleeping!  And although the layer of snow we received later in the day suggested otherwise, another winter had passed.  The time for new life had begun, and with that also came Spring cleaning.

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    Decision to Love,  Gratitude,  Happiness

    I Get to Love You

    February 10, 2025 / 2 Comments

    Click HERE to listen to the beautiful song, I Get to Love You by Ruelle JULIE Today I completed my 60th lap around the sun. It is a day of reflection, of looking back at my life through the rear-view mirror. I breathe a sigh of relief that I have been allowed to run the race this far when my younger sister and four of our closest friends were not so lucky. I have learned the hard way that growing older is indeed a privilege. As I glance across the room at John, I am so grateful for the privilege, especially that we completed the last 35 laps hand-in-hand. I…

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    Merry Christmas!

    December 23, 2024 / No Comments

    May the magic of Christmas live in your hearts and in your marriage every day. Merry Christmas from our Couples Post family to yours.

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    Opportunities for Intimacy

    December 16, 2024 / No Comments

    John Over the years, Julie and I have had many opportunities for intimacy – to experience a much greater sense of “into-me-see.” We’re not talking about physical intimacy where we share our bodies, but rather emotional intimacy where we share our hearts and souls. Grabbing onto these opportunities has strengthened our relationship and given it richness, new life, and deeper meaning.

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  • patience
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    Patience, Patience, Patience!

    October 21, 2024 / 1 Comment

    “Patience is the ability to idle your motor when you feel like stripping your gears.” Barbara Johnson Julie:  Our daughter-in-law is now 13 days overdue with our first grandchild.  We’ve known he was coming since Feb. 9, the news of his upcoming arrival being my best birthday present ever.  Looking back now, it seems like an eternity – and I’m not the one carrying him!  Patience may be a virtue, but it is certainly not one of mine.  This has been the cause of many rifts between John and me over the years.

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  • Big Challenges, Big Rewards
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    Big Challenges, Big Rewards

    September 9, 2024 / 1 Comment

    John How often do you as husband and wife take on challenging tasks together? What has been your experience when you do? Julie and I recently took on organizing a regional Worldwide Marriage Encounter convention for over three hundred people in a city a couple of hours away.  We knew going in that this was going to be stressful, tiring, complicated, and a big challenge, especially as it would be bilingual (which we are not) and include a Children’s Program.  It would push our limits of confidence and abilities as individuals and as a couple.  We also believed that it could be an opportunity for big rewards – to grow…

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    Have a Safe and Happy Labor Day!

    September 2, 2024 / No Comments

    From our Couples Post family to yours, we wish you a safe and happy Labor Day celebrating with friends and family!

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    The Healing Power of Touch

    July 22, 2024 / 1 Comment

    A previous blog explored a super power we all have within us – the Super Power of Affirmation.   But did you know that you possess another Super Power?  It’s the Healing Power of Touch.  Holy Hole in a Doughnut, Batman!  Bet you didn’t know you had all that in you!

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    friends,  Happiness,  Playfulness

    That’s What Friends Are For

    June 3, 2024 / 1 Comment

    John: We just returned from experiencing the incredible beauty of the Pacific coast.  2200 miles of mountains, beaches, rainforests, and vineyards in 12 days.  It was wonderful to get away as a couple and do what we love most – exploring the great outdoors.  While the scenery during the first 2000 miles was simply stunning, just as memorable and refreshing was the time spent with friends over the last 200 miles.

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