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  • Conflict,  Decision to Love,  Uncategorized

    Uh Oh, I Really Stepped In It Now

    February 16, 2025 / No Comments

    It’s inevitable. At some point you’re going to experience that “Oh, crap” moment of realizing you’ve forgotten something important or done something stupid. But fear not – you’re not alone.

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    Nick and Jen

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    Does He Buy You Avocados

    June 19, 2023

    What Happened to the Person I Married?

    January 20, 2020

    What Can’t You Afford to Edit out of Your Story?

    March 22, 2021
  • Playfulness,  Romance

    Still Crazy After All These Years

    January 5, 2025 / No Comments

    Nick: This Arlo and Janis comic came across my X feed out of the blue this past week, and I texted it immediately to Jen. It is an illustration of a very, very ‘us’ sort of interaction. It brings to mind the small ways we’re still crazy for each other after all these years.

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    3 Ways to Date Your Spouse

    September 30, 2024
    Happy Un-Valentine's Day

    Un-Valentine’s Day

    February 13, 2023
    weighing planned versus spontaneity

    The Spontaneity Spark

    May 16, 2022
  • Uncategorized

    Happy New Year!

    December 29, 2024 / No Comments

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    The Power of Gratitude in Marriage

    November 17, 2024

    Uh Oh, I Really Stepped In It Now

    February 16, 2025
    Happy Thanksgiving

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 20, 2023
  • Gratitude

    Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

    October 27, 2024 / No Comments

    Last week we were separated by a business trip. We made a point of connecting with each other each day over the phone, but the physical separation and reality of being in two very separate places is always a bit of a struggle for us.

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    Positively Live

    July 28, 2025
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    I Get to Love You

    February 10, 2025

    The Music of Us

    September 15, 2024
  • Gratitude,  Romance

    The Music of Us

    September 15, 2024 / 2 Comments

    It never fails. You’re listening to the radio in the car and a song comes on. And it’s THAT song and you can’t help but sing along. The words speak to you, the tune grabs you, and you feel the song all the way down to the depths of your soul.

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    An Attitude of Gratitude

    August 4, 2024

    Sunrise, Sunset

    October 27, 2025

    Sacrificing vs. Generosity in Marriage: A Paradigm Shift

    June 14, 2026
  • Decision to Love,  Differences

    Our “One of a Kind” Marriage

    July 28, 2024 / No Comments

    Our marriage is one of a kind. While we’re two people who have come from different places, we put together our past and present influences to become something new.

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    Nick and Jen

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    In Sickness and In Health

    July 13, 2026

    Anger, Over the Top

    July 15, 2019

    Our Wedding Vows, Revisited

    December 19, 2021
  • Decision to Love

    Summertime Marriage

    July 7, 2024 / No Comments

    When you think about summertime, does your mind turn to thoughts of free time, relaxation, fun, and light-heartedness? Marriage can be like summer in all these ways, but it can also go through times muddled by little slights that build to bigger ones, times when we are really at odds with one another, and also times of renewed commitment and hope. These stages are like the seasons of the year in nature.

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    The Rituals of Connection

    August 13, 2024

    Unmet Needs

    May 21, 2019

    The Secret Recipe of Intimacy

    February 11, 2019
  • Happiness,  Time

    Little Wonders

    June 12, 2024 / 1 Comment

    A lot of the time we spend in life is in small moments, rather than big ones. What if, instead of just letting the small moments, the ‘little wonders,’ pass by, we work on savoring and being grateful for as many of them as possible?

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    Peeling the Onion of Intimacy in Marriage

    February 21, 2022
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    Time with Friends

    October 17, 2022
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    The Joy of Volunteering Together

    March 16, 2025
  • Communication,  Romance,  Sex,  Vulnerability

    When In Doubt, Just Get Naked

    April 21, 2024 / 1 Comment

    When we were newlyweds, we heard another couple (married much longer than us) quip a line of advice: “when in doubt, just get naked.” It sounded good to us at the time, and it has only become more relevant since then. Let us explain…

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    Married Singles

    May 6, 2019
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    What’s Your Spouse’s Love Language? 

    June 22, 2026

    8 Misunderstandings That Are Hurting Your Sex Life

    July 19, 2020
  • Playfulness

    Movie Magic🍿

    March 3, 2024 / 1 Comment

    Many of the couples we know have a favorite movie. It’s usually one you enjoyed together and will pull off the shelf or out of the streaming catalogue once a year or so and revisit. Watching your movie together usually reconnects you to the good feelings and simplicity of the earlier time as well.

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    Love Letters

    November 1, 2021

    Relationships: Why Your Circle Matters

    October 20, 2025
    friends celebrating together

    Time with Friends

    October 17, 2022
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