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    Angel With a Broken Wing

    January 19, 2025 / 1 Comment

    The Angel With a Broken Wing caught my attention. She sat on the front porch of Tom’s sister’s house for as long as I could remember and was a welcoming presence to all who entered.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Wash War I

    March 9, 2026

    Intentional Marriage — 50 Ways

    October 14, 2019

    The 7 Best Things We’ve Done for Our Marriage

    June 3, 2019
  • Children,  Happiness,  Playfulness

    Don’t Forget to Laugh

    January 13, 2025 / No Comments

    Michelle: Isn’t it refreshing to think that something as simple as laughter can support your marriage and help it thrive? Here are some tips for bringing a dose of laughter into your relationship. Tip 1: Look for accidentally funny moments. One evening our daughter told us that her driver’s ed teacher was mean because he laughed at her during class. Taryn: My teacher asked if driving is a difficult and thought-provoking task? I said that driving is pretty simple because you just put the prindle in D and go. Us: Prindle? Taryn: Yeah, you know where the stick thing is. P-R-N-D-L. Tip 2: Never take yourself too seriously. Chris: When…

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    Chris and Michelle

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    Rule #1 for Resolving Conflict

    November 15, 2020

    Parenting as a Team

    March 16, 2020
    Co-parenting my child

    Co-parenting My Child

    October 11, 2021
  • Playfulness,  Romance

    Still Crazy After All These Years

    January 5, 2025 / No Comments

    Nick: This Arlo and Janis comic came across my X feed out of the blue this past week, and I texted it immediately to Jen. It is an illustration of a very, very ‘us’ sort of interaction. It brings to mind the small ways we’re still crazy for each other after all these years.

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    The Spontaneity Spark

    May 16, 2022

    Movie Magic🍿

    March 3, 2024

    3 Tips to Reduce Holiday Stress

    November 14, 2022
  • Uncategorized

    Happy New Year!

    December 29, 2024 / No Comments

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    Nick and Jen

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    Have a Blessed Holy Week

    March 31, 2026

    Memorial Day 2025

    May 26, 2025

    Easter Blessings:

    April 20, 2025
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    Merry Christmas!

    December 23, 2024 / No Comments

    May the magic of Christmas live in your hearts and in your marriage every day. Merry Christmas from our Couples Post family to yours.

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    John and Julie

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    A Life Well Lived is an Unfinished Symphony

    February 23, 2025

    Making Decisions as a Couple is a 3-Legged Race

    June 5, 2022
    Happy Thanksgiving

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 20, 2023
  • Opportunities for intimacy
    Intimacy

    Opportunities for Intimacy

    December 16, 2024 / No Comments

    John Over the years, Julie and I have had many opportunities for intimacy – to experience a much greater sense of “into-me-see.” We’re not talking about physical intimacy where we share our bodies, but rather emotional intimacy where we share our hearts and souls. Grabbing onto these opportunities has strengthened our relationship and given it richness, new life, and deeper meaning.

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    John and Julie

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    We Don’t Talk about That

    February 3, 2025
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    Time-out!

    January 19, 2026

    Someday Your Children Will Leave Home

    June 16, 2025
  • Behaviors,  Communication,  friends

    3 Life Lessons From the Movie ‘Wicked’

    December 9, 2024 / 3 Comments

    Michelle: After the Thanksgiving dishes were cleaned and put away, my family and I headed to the movie theater to see the cinematic experience that is Wicked! And, while the film offers an impressive cast, beloved songs and amazing scenes, it was also a treasure chest full of life lessons that were laced throughout the magical world of Oz. If you are unfamiliar with the premise, allow us to briefly set the stage.  Wicked is a musical told from the perspective of two witches, Elphaba and Galinda, before and after Dorthy’s arrival in Oz. The movie version of Wicked Part 1, which is essentially a prequel to the Wizard of…

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    The Busy Train

    January 15, 2024
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    To Be, or Not To Be…Right?

    September 8, 2025

    Cultivating Happiness

    January 10, 2022
  • Happiness,  Making Decisions,  Perseverance

    Should We Call It Quits??

    December 2, 2024 / No Comments

    A happy marriage is achievable despite challenges. Research shows divorce often doesn't lead to greater happiness, while perseverance can result in improved relationship satisfaction. Daily choices to love create positive change.

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    Ken and Janine

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    January 10, 2022

    Peeling the Onion of Intimacy in Marriage

    February 21, 2022
    Taking the Back Roads to a More Intimate Marriage

    Taking The Back Roads

    July 15, 2024
  • Happy Thanksgiving
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    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 25, 2024 / 3 Comments

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    Ken and Janine

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    Memorial Day

    May 26, 2026

    5 Bite Sized Ways to Become Better

    December 12, 2023

    In Sickness and in Health… Even During Cold and Flu Season

    March 17, 2024
  • Uncategorized

    The Power of Gratitude in Marriage

    November 17, 2024 / No Comments

    Sharing gratitude for a spouse is the most important predictor of the quality of marriage. This study shows expressing thanks for your partner can protect your marriage from the toxic effects of conflict and hardship. This is true even in the face of financial stress or negative communication patterns. The Many Benefits of Sharing Gratitude Gratitude expresses appreciation for what you have. This is in contrast to constantly reaching for something new hoping it will make you happier.    Simply sharing gratitude can lead to increase in physical health and happiness as noted in this study Studies have also shown there are relationship benefits to gratitude such as: In a healthy…

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    March 14, 2022
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    F.I.N.E.

    September 6, 2021

    Be Curious

    December 17, 2023
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