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    Go Anywhere, Do Anything

    June 9, 2025 / No Comments

    Chris: Over Memorial Day weekend, Michelle and I went wheeling in Moab, Utah, earning some Jeep badges along the way. We realized that some of the best off-road advice can be applied to our marriage. Here is our top five.  Michelle: Number Five-Things will get gnarly. Moab is known for some of the best and trickiest off-road trails. But things can go from a calm day in nature to gnarly,  real quick. We have learned that the same is true in our relationship. We have had a lot of smooth adventures in our marriage. But the true test of us comes from how we pull together when life does not…

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    Chris and Michelle

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    You’re the Inspiration

    June 1, 2025 / 1 Comment

    There’s a cheesy ‘80s song by Chicago called “You’re the Inspiration.” It was the wedding dance of thousands of couples in the 80s. Now that the song is in your head, what are the words you remember? Probably… “You’re the meaning in my life. You’re in the inspiration…”

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    Nick and Jen

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    August 3, 2026
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    Opportunities for Intimacy

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    Memorial Day 2025

    May 26, 2025 / No Comments

    We at The Couples Post are grateful to all of the brave men and women who have sacrificed their lives to preserve the freedom we all share in the United States. Please join us in praying for them and their family members this Memorial Day. We remember and honor them all.

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    Nick and Jen

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    June 14, 2021
  • Children,  Gratitude,  Intimacy,  Playfulness

    Everything We Need to Know We Learned…From a Baby? 

    May 19, 2025 / 1 Comment

    Grandparenthood has been all we dreamed it would be – and more.  We have loved every moment!  Our grandson is nearly 7 months old and changing rapidly.  He is learning new things every day.   As he lay peacefully sleeping in my arms recharging his little batteries, it dawned on me that he isn’t the only one learning.  In many ways, the student has become the teacher. We have learned so much from our little guy! 

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    Decision to Love,  Parenting,  Resilience,  Stress

    Hangry?

    May 12, 2025 / No Comments

    The challenges of caring for young grandchildren can cause stress and exhaustion, which can strain a relationship. It's important to recognize triggers that impact patience and communication. Empathy, forgiveness, and the importance of healing are important in times of stress.

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    Ken and Janine

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    June 19, 2023
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    Marriage Lessons Learned from Tango

    May 5, 2025 / 1 Comment

    A Final Gift from Pope Francis One of the last documents Pope Francis wrote was “On Tango and Lasting Marriage.” He loved Tango which originated in his native Argentina. In this post we will share of few of the many Marriage Lessons Learned from Tango.

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    Little Things Mean a Lot

    December 1, 2025
  • Accountability,  Forgiveness

    The Grace of Healing

    April 28, 2025 / 2 Comments

    Chris: Recently, Michelle’s boss gave her a surprise day off work.  Michelle assumed, that because I work from home, I would be willing to drop what I was doing and, in her words, “go on a fun road trip together”. When Michelle presented me with the idea, her enthusiasm and excitement frustrated me.  I was so annoyed about her, “fun adventure” that after she finished saying what we could do, I crossed my arms and snapped, “Oh sure Michelle.  My work is insignificant.  Let me drop everything I have planned today so that I can cater to your whims.”  Unfortunately, I did not stop there.  I decided in that moment,…

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    Your Opinion Matters

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    May 8, 2022
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    Easter Blessings:

    April 20, 2025 / No Comments

    We at The Couples Post, want to wish all of our readers, a very Happy and Blessed Easter to you and your family!

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    Happy Thanksgiving!

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    December 1, 2025
  • Decision to Love,  Transformation

    The Real Challenge of a Relationship

    April 13, 2025 / 1 Comment

    “The real challenge of a relationship is not in loving. The real challenge of a relationship is in allowing ourselves to be loved.” We heard this statement at a recent day of reflection we attended, entitled, “Living a Life of Freedom.” The program was presented by Paul Coutinho, Ph.D. Dr. Coutinho spoke of the importance of relationships, both with God and with each other. Dr. Coutinho went on to say that we can only truly love when we are loved. God’s Love Cannot Be Contained – Sacred Doorways It is often easier to love Scott: The challenge of being loved is certainly true in our relationship. Loving Karen does not…

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    Don’t Roll Your Eyes and Say Whatever

    April 6, 2025 / 1 Comment

    Nick: Sometimes Jen does little things I don’t like. For example, I always make sure to turn off the headlights when I park the car, having had this drummed into me as a teenager. On the other hand, Jen, knowing modern cars have built-in safeguards preventing lights from staying on all night and draining the battery anyway, is not as concerned about it. This often plays out with her walking away leaving the headlights on and me going back to turn them off myself. I feel irritated and just want to roll my eyes and say “whatever.”

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    June 14, 2021

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    Have a Safe and Happy Labor Day!

    September 2, 2024
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