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  • Communication,  Perseverance,  Stress,  Time

    Marriage Under Quarantine

    March 23, 2020 / 2 Comments

    This week we created a fun video to get you re-focused on your relationship while locked in quarantine together. Click on video below! Leave a comment on the creative ways you’re growing your relationship during the coronavirus outbreak!

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    Ken and Janine

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    The Healing Power of Touch

    July 22, 2024

    Why Go It Alone

    April 3, 2023

    Got Money Arguments?

    November 25, 2019
  • Children,  Communication,  Parenting

    Parenting as a Team

    March 16, 2020 / 2 Comments

    Photo by John Mark-Smith Becoming parents is such an amazing blessing. From the moment we first hold our newborn child, our world is changed. Whether navigating the terrible two’s or adjusting to parenting young adults, we learned something that is crucial about parenting – we are much stronger together than we are as individuals.

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    Mark and Mel

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    Heart Cards

    February 7, 2022

    5 Reasons You Need a Getaway Without Kids

    September 12, 2021

    Keeping Your Marriage Sane While Quarantined

    March 30, 2020
  • Communication,  Conflict,  Decision to Love,  Time

    Love’s Sweet Spot

    March 9, 2020 / No Comments

    Photo Credit: Jose Mizrahi on Unsplash Many of you are familiar with theYin-Yang symbol or the phrase “opposites attract.”  You know, the eternal optimist vs. the pessimist, the spontaneous adventurer vs. the live by the calendar person.  Let’s call them complementary, not opposite.  Think:  You are the peanut butter to my jelly or the music to my dancing shoes.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    It’s Not About the Dress

    July 6, 2018

    Tone of Voice

    July 16, 2018

    I Will ROMANCE You Every Day of My Life

    July 25, 2018
  • Communication,  Romance

    A Love That Surprises and Remembers

    February 10, 2020 / 1 Comment

    Photo Credit:  Denise Johnson Valentines Day is for Romance and Lovers.  Who doesn’t enjoy reminiscing about romance, memorable proposals and your wedding day?  These memories can often put us in the mood for romance even if we are not feeling particularly romantic.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Laughter & Sex… That’s What She Said

    May 10, 2021

    3 Tips to Make Your Marriage Thrive

    August 20, 2019

    The Elf on the Shelf

    December 21, 2020
  • Children,  Communication,  Parenting,  Relatives

    Getting Teens to Talk

    February 2, 2020 / 1 Comment

    Do you have teenagers? Maybe this sounds familiar: Interested Parent: “How was school today sweetheart?” Moping teenager, “Fine.” “Is everything OK?” “Yup.” “Anything you want to talk about?” “Nope.” Good talk.

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    Paul and Stephanie

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    Leave & Cleave

    October 8, 2018

    Don’t Forget to Laugh

    January 13, 2025

    Parenting as a Team

    March 16, 2020
  • Communication,  Conflict,  Decision to Love,  Differences,  Perseverance

    What Happened to the Person I Married?

    January 20, 2020 / No Comments

    After starting out so in love with my spouse, how is it that I sometimes find him/her so annoying and hard to live with?  What happened to the person I married?

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    Ken and Janine

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    Empathy, Is It Contagious? For You Baby…

    August 21, 2018

    Tip of the Iceberg

    October 2, 2023

    Overcoming Apathy in our Marriage

    October 12, 2020
  • Communication,  Decision to Love,  Passion

    Marriage Magic

    December 16, 2019 / No Comments

    Photo Credit:  Jared Lind on Unsplash As we become immersed in this holiday season we are drawn to the magic.  Recall the wonder and awe of your childhood, reindeers that fly and a Santa who made dreams come true.  Fast-forward several decades.  Remember the rush of feelings when you knew your spouse was ‘the one‘.  You reveled in discovering this person who showered you with love and support.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Tell Her She’s Pretty and Let Him Go Golfing

    January 18, 2021

    Overcoming Apathy in our Marriage

    October 12, 2020
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    October 9, 2023
  • Communication,  Conflict,  Decision to Love

    Scorekeeping in Marriage

    December 8, 2019 / No Comments

    “Scorekeeping” in our marriage can lead to resentment. It starts with an attitude of “I deserve more” where we keep a tally of all the things we do for our spouse. “I did the laundry so he should do the dishes.” This is compounded by the fact that men and women keep score differently.

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    Paul and Stephanie

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    Vulnerability

    Finding Joy Through Vulnerability

    August 28, 2023

    TGIF!

    April 4, 2018

    Changing Our Dance and Learning to Love It

    July 6, 2020
  • Communication,  Conflict,  Finances

    Got Money Arguments?

    November 25, 2019 / No Comments

    When couples have conversations about money, it often leads to disagreements, defensiveness, and arguments. Why is it so difficult to talk about finances? Conversations about money usually aren’t JUST about money. We all have underlying feelings (some very strong) about money. Fear. Insecurity. Resentment. Our past experiences affect how we deal with money. When we talk with our spouse about how to spend or save, all those memories and feelings start to surface.

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    Ken and Janine

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    Forgiveness & Healing

    August 13, 2018

    Verbal Judo – Harmonizing Your Tone of Voice

    September 14, 2025

    Marriage Wake-Up Calls

    August 7, 2023
  • Communication,  Passion,  Romance,  Time

    What are you passionate about?

    November 18, 2019 / No Comments

    Jen: Passion is defined as an intense desire or enthusiasm for something. In my life, I’m passionate about our children – making sure they are loved and supported, helping them become responsible adults. I’m passionate about my work, helping kids develop a love of reading. I’m also passionate about my hobby of quilting, trying to create art through fabric. All of these things fill me with an intense desire and enthusiasm in varying degrees.

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    Nick and Jen

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    The Benefit of the Doubt

    August 31, 2020

    Reaching Out – Together

    April 20, 2020

    The Empty Nest Repopulated – 4 Ways to make it Great!

    October 26, 2020
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