The Couples Post

Support for married couples, by married couples.

  • About
  • Date Night Ideas
  • 50 Ways to Love Your Lover
  • About
  • Date Night Ideas
  • 50 Ways to Love Your Lover

Pages

  • 20 Ways to Become a More Patient Spouse this Week
  • 25 Conversation Starter Questions on Sexuality
  • 50 Questions to ask your spouse besides “How was your day?”
  • 50 Ways to Engage Kids on a Budget
  • 50 Ways to Love Your Lover
  • About
  • At Home Dating
  • BAILEY’S TREE
  • Barriers to Forgiveness and Healing
  • Confronting for the Sake of Our Relationship
  • Conversation Starters
  • Date Night Ideas
  • Dialogue
  • Double Chocolate Brownies
  • Emotional Bank Account
  • Feelings Reflect Who I am as a Unique Individual
  • Four Basic Psychological Needs
  • How to Foster Teamwork – A Starter List
  • In Memory of Fr. Tom Ogg
  • Let’s Talk about Sex
  • Making Decisions as a Couple – 10 Steps
  • Marriage Check-up Exercise
  • Our Family Commandments
  • Phones at the Dinner Table Discussion Questions
  • Privacy Policy
  • Re-Evaluation
  • Stress vs. Burnout and Depression
  • The Power of Positive: Examples of Converting Negatives about our Relationship to Positives
  • There’s Always Something More to Talk About
  • Worldwide Marriage Encounter Experience
  • Writing a Focused Love Letter
  • Communication,  Decision to Love,  Relatives

    Reaching Out – Together

    April 20, 2020 / No Comments

    JULIE: During this bizarre time when we are all quarantined, I need reassurance that our friends and family members are safe and in a good place mentally. This is especially true of our young adult kids who are not only dealing with social isolation, but also unemployment. I also worry about our parents and siblings, especially my dad as he lives alone.

    Read More
    John and Julie

    You May Also Like

    Parenting 101 – United We Stand

    October 29, 2019

    I Will ROMANCE You Every Day of My Life

    July 25, 2018
    mother and daughter as confidants

    Beyond biology: Where Do Babies Come From?

    August 3, 2021
  • Communication,  Conflict,  Perseverance,  Time

    Marriage: Our Security in the Chaos

    April 5, 2020 / No Comments

    Paul: Our country and our world has been turned upside down these past few weeks with worry, fear, and anxiety over the Covid-19 pandemic. How does all of this affect the average married couple? How can we thrive instead of merely survive this crisis?

    Read More
    Paul and Stephanie

    You May Also Like

    Keeping Your Marriage Sane While Quarantined

    March 30, 2020

    Making Up is Hard to Do

    June 21, 2018
    super-power of affirmation

    The Super-Power of Affirmation

    February 26, 2024
  • Children,  Communication,  Decision to Love,  Perseverance,  Time

    Keeping Your Marriage Sane While Quarantined

    March 30, 2020 / No Comments

    Jen: Being quarantined and trying to limit your exposure to others is one thing and having kids at home adds another dimension. So many parents are trying to make a living and unexpectedly take care of their kids at home at the same time. No matter what your situation is, being quarantined at home can add stresses on your couple relationship that you haven’t experienced before.

    Read More
    Nick and Jen

    You May Also Like

    empty nest kids squabbling

    The Empty Nest Revisited

    November 28, 2022

    The Happiest Place on Earth – NOT (this time)

    October 7, 2019

    The Empty Nest Repopulated – 4 Ways to make it Great!

    October 26, 2020
  • Communication,  Perseverance,  Stress,  Time

    Marriage Under Quarantine

    March 23, 2020 / 2 Comments

    This week we created a fun video to get you re-focused on your relationship while locked in quarantine together. Click on video below! Leave a comment on the creative ways you’re growing your relationship during the coronavirus outbreak!

    Read More
    Ken and Janine

    You May Also Like

    Finding Solid Ground — 7 Steps

    September 29, 2020

    In Sickness and In Health

    August 15, 2022
    marriage requires commitment like the olympics

    Marriage – the Olympics of Relationships

    February 23, 2026
  • Children,  Communication,  Parenting

    Parenting as a Team

    March 16, 2020 / 2 Comments

    Photo by John Mark-Smith Becoming parents is such an amazing blessing. From the moment we first hold our newborn child, our world is changed. Whether navigating the terrible two’s or adjusting to parenting young adults, we learned something that is crucial about parenting – we are much stronger together than we are as individuals.

    Read More
    Mark and Mel

    You May Also Like

    Can We Have Some Pickles with That Sandwich?

    September 15, 2020

    I Married YOU, Not Your Family

    February 24, 2020

    Happy Holidays? In 2020? Yes!

    December 14, 2020
  • Communication,  Conflict,  Decision to Love,  Time

    Love’s Sweet Spot

    March 9, 2020 / No Comments

    Photo Credit: Jose Mizrahi on Unsplash Many of you are familiar with theYin-Yang symbol or the phrase “opposites attract.”  You know, the eternal optimist vs. the pessimist, the spontaneous adventurer vs. the live by the calendar person.  Let’s call them complementary, not opposite.  Think:  You are the peanut butter to my jelly or the music to my dancing shoes.

    Read More
    Tom and Mary Frances

    You May Also Like

    Marriage is a VERB

    March 11, 2019

    Dream a Little Dream With Me

    August 3, 2020

    Words – The Seeds of Life in Marriage

    July 1, 2019
  • Communication,  Romance

    A Love That Surprises and Remembers

    February 10, 2020 / 1 Comment

    Photo Credit:  Denise Johnson Valentines Day is for Romance and Lovers.  Who doesn’t enjoy reminiscing about romance, memorable proposals and your wedding day?  These memories can often put us in the mood for romance even if we are not feeling particularly romantic.

    Read More
    Tom and Mary Frances

    You May Also Like

    Reaching Out – Together

    April 20, 2020
    Loving Each Other in Spite of Our Differences

    Loving Each Other in Spite of Our Differences

    April 4, 2022

    The #1 Communication Problem in Marriage

    May 2, 2022
  • Children,  Communication,  Parenting,  Relatives

    Getting Teens to Talk

    February 2, 2020 / 1 Comment

    Do you have teenagers? Maybe this sounds familiar: Interested Parent: “How was school today sweetheart?” Moping teenager, “Fine.” “Is everything OK?” “Yup.” “Anything you want to talk about?” “Nope.” Good talk.

    Read More
    Paul and Stephanie

    You May Also Like

    50 Ways to Engage Kids

    January 13, 2020

    Parenting 101 – United We Stand

    October 29, 2019

    Radical non-Parenting

    November 9, 2020
  • Communication,  Conflict,  Decision to Love,  Differences,  Perseverance

    What Happened to the Person I Married?

    January 20, 2020 / No Comments

    After starting out so in love with my spouse, how is it that I sometimes find him/her so annoying and hard to live with?  What happened to the person I married?

    Read More
    Ken and Janine

    You May Also Like

    A Plea For Real Men

    November 23, 2020

    Letters to Joy

    October 4, 2021

    What is Love Asking of Me Now?

    May 6, 2024
  • Communication,  Decision to Love,  Passion

    Marriage Magic

    December 16, 2019 / No Comments

    Photo Credit:  Jared Lind on Unsplash As we become immersed in this holiday season we are drawn to the magic.  Recall the wonder and awe of your childhood, reindeers that fly and a Santa who made dreams come true.  Fast-forward several decades.  Remember the rush of feelings when you knew your spouse was ‘the one‘.  You reveled in discovering this person who showered you with love and support.

    Read More
    Tom and Mary Frances

    You May Also Like

    In Sickness and In Health

    August 15, 2022
    Roamntic man and woman standing in front of a large flame

    4 Ways to Keep the Sexual Pilot Light Lit

    March 21, 2022

    TGIF!

    April 4, 2018
1112131415

Categories

Subscribe

Subscribe to receive new content every week
Loading

Recent Posts

  • “Just Do It!”
  • FlatTire #2
  • Yelping my Spouse-Round Two 
  • Finding Peace
  • In Sickness and In Health – Part 2

Meta

  • Log in
  • Entries feed
  • Comments feed
  • WordPress.org
© 2026 The Couples Post