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  • Communication,  Conflict,  Perseverance,  Time

    Marriage: Our Security in the Chaos

    April 5, 2020 / No Comments

    Paul: Our country and our world has been turned upside down these past few weeks with worry, fear, and anxiety over the Covid-19 pandemic. How does all of this affect the average married couple? How can we thrive instead of merely survive this crisis?

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    Paul and Stephanie

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    Marriage ScoreCard

    April 8, 2019

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    January 26, 2019

    Listening = Love and Respect

    June 1, 2020
  • Children,  Communication,  Decision to Love,  Perseverance,  Time

    Keeping Your Marriage Sane While Quarantined

    March 30, 2020 / No Comments

    Jen: Being quarantined and trying to limit your exposure to others is one thing and having kids at home adds another dimension. So many parents are trying to make a living and unexpectedly take care of their kids at home at the same time. No matter what your situation is, being quarantined at home can add stresses on your couple relationship that you haven’t experienced before.

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    Nick and Jen

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    5 Reasons You Need a Getaway Without Kids

    January 8, 2024

    Holiday Traditions

    October 15, 2018
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    A Toast

    July 31, 2023
  • Communication,  Perseverance,  Stress,  Time

    Marriage Under Quarantine

    March 23, 2020 / 2 Comments

    This week we created a fun video to get you re-focused on your relationship while locked in quarantine together. Click on video below! Leave a comment on the creative ways you’re growing your relationship during the coronavirus outbreak!

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    Ken and Janine

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    What Happened to the Person I Married?

    January 20, 2020

    Reaching Out – Together

    April 20, 2020

    Advice From a Divorce Lawyer

    March 4, 2019
  • Children,  Communication,  Parenting

    Parenting as a Team

    March 16, 2020 / 2 Comments

    Photo by John Mark-Smith Becoming parents is such an amazing blessing. From the moment we first hold our newborn child, our world is changed. Whether navigating the terrible two’s or adjusting to parenting young adults, we learned something that is crucial about parenting – we are much stronger together than we are as individuals.

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    Mark and Mel

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    Was it Bad Parenting or Making Memories?

    October 31, 2022

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    September 23, 2019

    I Married YOU, Not Your Family

    February 24, 2020
  • Communication,  Conflict,  Decision to Love,  Time

    Love’s Sweet Spot

    March 9, 2020 / No Comments

    Photo Credit: Jose Mizrahi on Unsplash Many of you are familiar with theYin-Yang symbol or the phrase “opposites attract.”  You know, the eternal optimist vs. the pessimist, the spontaneous adventurer vs. the live by the calendar person.  Let’s call them complementary, not opposite.  Think:  You are the peanut butter to my jelly or the music to my dancing shoes.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Time for a Marriage Getaway? “Here’s Yer Sign”

    October 28, 2019

    Knowing and Loving

    September 22, 2024

    Supporting Your Spouse While Maintaining Individuality

    October 4, 2020
  • Stress,  Time

    3 Steps to a Better Work – Life Balance

    March 2, 2020 / 2 Comments

    Let’s face it – being married and raising a family is hard work. Add in demanding work schedules, children’s activities, volunteer work, and making time for family and friends, and it can be overwhelming. Here are three ways we’ve discovered to keep our work-life better balanced.

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    Paul and Stephanie

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    3 Tips to Reduce Holiday Stress

    November 14, 2022
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    Us Against the World

    August 22, 2021

    When It Doesn’t Work Out💔

    May 15, 2023
  • Children,  Conflict,  Parenting,  Relatives

    I Married YOU, Not Your Family

    February 24, 2020 / 1 Comment

    Photo by cottonbrofrom Pexels Growing up and getting married means that we leave our family of origin and start a new family.  We’re not asked to forget about mom and dad, but we do need to remember that our spousal relationship is important to take care of because it becomes the solid ground where we plant our new roots.

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    Nick and Jen

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    Tis the Season to Ruin Holidays

    November 11, 2024

    Happy Holidays? In 2020? Yes!

    December 14, 2020

    Can We Have Some Pickles with That Sandwich?

    September 15, 2020
  • Children,  Decision to Love,  Making Decisions,  Parenting,  Perseverance,  Time

    Empty Nest – Syndrome or Summit?

    February 17, 2020 / No Comments

    Janine: I remember when we had three children under the age of 5.  One thing I fantasized about was being able to leave the house someday WITHOUT a diaper bag.  I didn’t know if that day would ever come.  In the midst of the wild and crazy parenting years, I couldn’t imagine what life would be like after kids.  Before we knew it…our youngest child went off to college.

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    Ken and Janine

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    KFC – It’s What’s for Mother’s Day!

    May 4, 2021

    I Married YOU, Not Your Family

    February 24, 2020

    Time for a Marriage Getaway? “Here’s Yer Sign”

    October 28, 2019
  • Communication,  Romance

    A Love That Surprises and Remembers

    February 10, 2020 / 1 Comment

    Photo Credit:  Denise Johnson Valentines Day is for Romance and Lovers.  Who doesn’t enjoy reminiscing about romance, memorable proposals and your wedding day?  These memories can often put us in the mood for romance even if we are not feeling particularly romantic.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Finding Solid Ground — 7 Steps

    September 29, 2020

    Intentional Marriage — 50 Ways

    October 14, 2019

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    April 4, 2018
  • Children,  Communication,  Parenting,  Relatives

    Getting Teens to Talk

    February 2, 2020 / 1 Comment

    Do you have teenagers? Maybe this sounds familiar: Interested Parent: “How was school today sweetheart?” Moping teenager, “Fine.” “Is everything OK?” “Yup.” “Anything you want to talk about?” “Nope.” Good talk.

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    Paul and Stephanie

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    August 26, 2019

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    November 9, 2020

    Ugh, Mom and Dad, no PDA!

    September 23, 2019
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