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    Loving Your Way through February

    February 1, 2021 / No Comments

    It is said that February is the month for lovers. Having five kids in 10 years, Nick and I spent many years focusing on kid activities for Valentine’s Day. But romance has always been a priority for us, and if February has to be an excuse to be romantic, I say bring it on!

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    Nick and Jen

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    May 31, 2021
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    May 16, 2022

    Quarantine Romance

    April 27, 2020
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    Decision to Love,  Forgiveness,  Romance

    The Super-Power of Affirmation

    January 25, 2021 / 2 Comments

      JULIE: I’m not a superhero. While I can’t fly faster than a speeding bullet, make myself invisible, or read people’s minds, I CAN harness the super-power of affirmation by  telling John the numerous reasons he is special to me or the many traits I admire in him. Never underestimate the super-power of affirmation to build up your spouse and enhance your relationship.

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    John and Julie

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    8 Ideas to Help Settle Disagreements in Marriage

    October 19, 2020
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    30 for 30! A Tidbit of Advice for Each Year of Marriage

    May 31, 2021

    Count Down to Christmas — TMI!

    December 10, 2018
  • Children,  Communication,  Decision to Love,  Parenting,  Romance

    Tell Her She’s Pretty and Let Him Go Golfing

    January 18, 2021 / No Comments

    Kids say the funniest things. But sometimes, the things they say can teach us a thing or two. Our friends Greg and Cecilia have five children between 1 and 11 years old. They asked their four oldest kids to answer some questions about marriage. Here’s what they had to say: Why do people get Married? Because they love each other. Because they kiss each other. How do you know Mom and Dad love each other?

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    Ken and Janine

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    The Empty Nest Repopulated – 4 Ways to make it Great!

    October 26, 2020

    Getting Teens to Talk

    February 2, 2020

    Keeping Up with the Jones’s

    August 26, 2019
  • Communication,  Decision to Love,  Differences,  Passion,  Romance,  Sex,  Time

    10 Things Women Want

    December 7, 2020 / No Comments

    1) Learn her “Love Language:” And speak it often! (Learn more: What Language Are You Speaking? ) Janine’s love language is “Acts of Service.” So, when I vacuum or do dishes or cook, it fills up her ‘love tank’ – her mood brightens and there’s a whole different vibe between us.  I can tell I’ve found a direct path to her heart.

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    Ken and Janine

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    3 Tips to Reduce Holiday Stress

    November 14, 2022

    Changing Our Dance and Learning to Love It

    July 6, 2020
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    The 4 Horsemen

    March 13, 2023
  • Communication,  Conflict,  Decision to Love,  Differences,  Perseverance,  Romance,  Time

    Annual Marriage Tune-Up

    August 23, 2020 / No Comments

    A number of years ago, some friends of ours told us about a little trick they use to keep their marriage healthy, strong, and vibrant. Every year, they pledge to attend some kind of marriage enrichment event together. According to our friends, this does not mean weekend getaways to the beach, skiing, or going to a bed and breakfast together.

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    Paul and Stephanie

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    Dream a Little Dream With Me

    August 3, 2020

    How We Saved Our Failing Marriage

    September 9, 2019
  • Communication,  Decision to Love,  Differences,  Romance,  Sex

    8 Misunderstandings That Are Hurting Your Sex Life

    July 19, 2020 / No Comments

    Why are we writing about sex again?  Sex in marriage is more important than most people think.  It’s mysterious. There are a lot of “layers” and complexities to this whole topic…. read on…

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    Ken and Janine

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    April 8, 2019

    Changing Our Dance and Learning to Love It

    July 6, 2020

    Love’s Sweet Spot

    March 9, 2020
  • Communication,  Differences,  Romance,  Sex

    Sex-pectations

    June 15, 2020 / No Comments

    “Expectation is the root of all heartache.”  – William Shakespeare We all enter marriage with “sex-pectations” – our ideas of what our sex life will be like.  When “we can’t get enough of each other” gradually deteriorates to “not tonight,” we find ourselves feeling disappointed, hurt, even un-loved. BUT…it doesn’t have to stay that way. 

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    Ken and Janine

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    February 4, 2019

    Marriage is a Minefield

    May 22, 2022

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    July 6, 2020
  • Communication,  Grief,  Romance

    So Over COVID!

    May 25, 2020 / No Comments

    Photo Credit: Gabriel Benois on Unsplash We are so very over Covid -19 — Zoom meetings, air hugs, frightful news, conflicting information, data overload and face masks — All of it!  We long for real gatherings, real hugs, and the freedom to breathe in the air without worry.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Keeping Your Marriage Sane While Quarantined

    March 30, 2020

    Changing Our Dance and Learning to Love It

    July 6, 2020

    Getting More of What You Want in Your Marriage

    February 21, 2021
  • Children,  Passion,  Romance,  Sex

    Quarantine Romance

    April 27, 2020 / No Comments

    From Free-Photos on Pixabay We have been under a stay-at-home order for 5 weeks now due to the Coronavirus pandemic.  Just being in the same house together doesn’t ensure a close, intimate relationship though; we must decide to take actions that bring us together.  We decided to view this mandate to stay at home as an opportunity to find new everyday ways to romance each other.

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    Mark and Mel

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    May 4, 2021

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    September 15, 2020

    50 Ways to Engage Kids

    January 13, 2020
  • Communication,  Romance

    A Love That Surprises and Remembers

    February 10, 2020 / 1 Comment

    Photo Credit:  Denise Johnson Valentines Day is for Romance and Lovers.  Who doesn’t enjoy reminiscing about romance, memorable proposals and your wedding day?  These memories can often put us in the mood for romance even if we are not feeling particularly romantic.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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