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    Passion,  Romance,  Time

    30 Seconds of Passion

    October 25, 2021 / No Comments

    LARRY:   When life gives you lemons (or a Covid pandemic) – make lemonade.  When Covid hit, my wife Jula and I decided to turn our quarantine into a second honeymoon.  We made the most of the extra time we had together by being romantic and talked about areas of our relationship that we’d actively avoided. Well …after about 6 months of this second honeymoon, life threw us a few curveballs and the proverbial ‘honeymoon wore off.’  Some months later, I had a dream where I got the idea of “30 Seconds of Passion.”   

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    Ken and Janine

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  • Children,  Parenting,  Romance,  Stress,  Time

    5 Reasons You Need a Getaway Without Kids

    September 12, 2021 / No Comments

    As we placed linen napkins on our laps for a fancy dinner, we realized life as we knew it was about to change. We were soon going to become parents. We’d enjoyed two wonderful years of marriage and wondered … would this be our last Getaway alone?

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    Recreating Your Relationship

    August 16, 2021 / No Comments

    JOHN: We just returned from two separate camping trips about a week apart. The first was the annual family camping trip with our young adult kids in the tent with us and 17 members of the extended family on nearby sites.  The second was just the two of us. Wow, what a difference! While we love spending 24/7 time with our kids and extended family, we also love the calm and freedom that come with camping as a couple. It reminds us fondly of our early years together.

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    Conflict,  Decision to Love,  Differences,  Making Decisions,  Romance,  Sex

    The Game of Life

    July 12, 2021 / No Comments

    In the game of life, even with the best laid plans, things going awry isn’t just a possibility – it’s a probability.  It’s how we change the game plan that determines whether we turn it into a touchdown or a turnover.  Here’s the play-by-play of our recent weekend watching our twin 8-year-old nieces: Game plan: Camping in the back yard, complete with campfire and s’mores Actual play: 3 days straight of rain Punt: Making popcorn and watching a movie together Game plan: Going for a big explore in a nearby park and checking out the new playground equipment Actual play: 3 days straight of rain Punt: Crafts and having a…

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  • Communication,  Making Decisions,  Romance,  Stress,  Uncategorized

    5 Lessons for a Howl of a Good Time

    June 14, 2021 / 1 Comment

    CHRIS: As a child, I’m sure one of my parent’s intentions for having a dog was to teach me about responsibility.  But, if I am being honest, my parents ended up doing most of the work. That all changed when Michelle and I began raising our own fur babies. They have been responsible for teaching us some valuable life lessons.  Here are five lessons we have learned from each of the many dogs we have shared throughout our married life.

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    Taking the Easy Road

    June 7, 2021 / No Comments

    Marriage is hard work. Sometimes we make it harder than it needs to be. That’s why this week, we’re going to suggest a way to take the easy road.

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    30 for 30! A Tidbit of Advice for Each Year of Marriage

    May 31, 2021 / No Comments

      With June just around the corner, it’s time once again for wedding season to begin.  Whether you’re just starting your marriage journey or you’ve been on it for decades, couples can always use a piece of great advice – that’s why you’re reading this, right?  In honor of our 30th wedding anniversary, we thought we’d pass along 30 for 30 – one tidbit of advice we’ve discovered for each year of marriage: 

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    Money Can’t Buy Me Love… 😍

    May 23, 2021 / 3 Comments

      Ken: It’s all over the news…. First Jeff Bezos and now Bill Gates have become divorcees. Two of the richest men in the world didn’t find married bliss, so how am I supposed to? How do we find lasting happiness in our marriage? My mom has always said…

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    Dear Younger Us

    May 17, 2021 / No Comments

    You don’t have to be married long before you look back at your dating days and reminisce. We got married at the ripe young age of 23 and had our first baby shortly thereafter. Our lives changed dramatically in a short time. Looking back, we don’t regret jumping into family life with both feet, but it’s fun to imagine now what we might have to say to us back then.

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    Remember When…

    March 15, 2021 / 1 Comment

    It’s easy to get lost in our day-to-day. Once we’re out of the honeymoon phase of marriage and real life settles in, we develop routines and patterns of behavior. We become consumed by the here and now, and sometimes we can lose sight of the excitement and passion that brought us together and inspired us to get married in the first place.

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