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    Life Outside Our Comfort Zone

    September 24, 2023 / No Comments

    Life outside our comfort zone has benefits. When we challenge ourselves to step outside our comfort zone, it brings growth and fulfillment. Unfortunately, the fear of failure can sometimes keep us in the safe zone.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Should We Call It Quits??

    December 2, 2024

    Marriage Role Models

    February 19, 2024
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    Marriage – the Olympics of Relationships

    February 23, 2026
  • Communication

    Say What You Mean, Mean What You Say

    August 13, 2023 / 1 Comment

    Seriously, Don’t hide the chocolate! Lesson learned: “Say what you mean. Mean what you say.”

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    Tip of the Iceberg

    October 2, 2023

    Just Go To Bed

    March 11, 2024
    Loving Each Other in Spite of Our Differences

    Loving Each Other in Spite of Our Differences

    April 4, 2022
  • Decision to Love

    Mud in the Backyard

    July 9, 2023 / No Comments

    Mud in the backyard. You might think there is a metaphor in that. Maybe there is.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    5 Things I Wish I’d Done Differently

    June 26, 2023

    Ahh, Leap Year, 366 Days to Love Your Lover

    February 11, 2024
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    Us Against the World

    August 22, 2021
  • Uncategorized

    Sacrificing in Marriage Can Lead to Resentment

    May 22, 2023 / No Comments

    Marriage often requires and benefits from sacrifice. It is a willingness to put your partner’s needs above your own. In a study published in 2021, it was shown that sacrificing in a marriage can lead to resentment and other ‘hidden costs’ like anger and guilt.

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    Life is Full of Risks

    March 6, 2023
    Happy Thanksgiving

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 20, 2023
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    The Spontaneity Spark

    May 16, 2022
  • Grief,  Honesty,  Making Decisions,  Stress

    Out of the Mouth of Babes

    April 16, 2023 / No Comments

    Out of the Mouth of Babes . . . Several weeks ago, we got a 7-month old standard poodle, Jazzy. Our 2 cats were quite perturbed as they had not been included in the decision. They were rampant with emotion and the cat tree became their safe haven.

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    The Healing Power of Touch

    July 22, 2024

    Rewind

    September 26, 2022

    So Over COVID!

    May 25, 2020
  • Uncategorized

    Life is Full of Risks

    March 6, 2023 / 2 Comments

    Life is full of Risks. Financial, emotional, and physical – we take them all the time. There is nothing more endearing than hearing, “Again! Again! Again!” after swinging a toddler in the air. Children instinctively take risks. As we age, risk taking becomes intentional, calculated and requires effort, but staying in the safe zone is also taking a risk.

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    Marriage Lessons Learned from Tango

    May 5, 2025

    Our Anti-Resolution List

    January 1, 2024

    Easter Blessings:

    April 20, 2025
  • Accountability,  Differences

    Opposites Don’t Attract — They Attack

    January 29, 2023 / 1 Comment

    Let’s debunk the myth that “Opposites attract” once and for all. We are attracted to our spouse because they complement us. They bring completeness to our lives. In a relationship completeness is more than finding the missing piece to a puzzle. When the puzzle is done, it’s satisfying, but no longer fun and interesting.

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    My Tip Troll

    May 30, 2022
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    Making Up is Hard to Do

    August 28, 2022

    Are We Scrolling by Our Relationship?

    November 26, 2023
  • Uncategorized

    Have New Year’s Resolutions Become Cliche?

    December 26, 2022 / No Comments

    Millions of people make New Year’s resolutions. Some make the same resolution year after year. It doesn’t take statistics to show we are not great at keeping them. Have New Year’s resolutions become cliche? Or are we making the wrong resolutions, or the right resolutions but for the wrong reasons?

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    Uh Oh, I Really Stepped In It Now

    February 16, 2025
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    Happy Labor Day!

    September 5, 2022
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    F.I.N.E.

    September 6, 2021
  • Behaviors,  Communication,  Honesty,  Making Decisions,  Playfulness,  Stress,  Time

    3 Tips to Reduce Holiday Stress

    November 14, 2022 / No Comments

    Like it or not, the Holidays are upon us. Jack-o-Lanterns may still be on the porches, but Christmas will be here before we know it. Here are 3 practical tips to reduce Holiday stress and find Joy as the Countdown to Christmas continues.

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    Married Singles

    August 21, 2023

    $#*! My Spouse Says

    September 19, 2023

    Smiling is a Superpower

    February 28, 2023
  • Uncategorized

    Will It Matter Tomorrow?

    August 21, 2022 / 1 Comment

    Will it matter tomorrow . . . if the avocados were too firm to slice for salad tonight? Will it matter tomorrow if the dishwasher wasn’t loaded the way you load it? What if a favorite cotton sweater got dried on high heat with the bath towels? Will it matter tomorrow?

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    Happy Thanksgiving

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 20, 2023

    Lessons Learned We Have

    May 1, 2023

    Our Anti-Resolution List

    January 1, 2024
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