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  • 20 Ways to Become a More Patient Spouse this Week
  • 25 Conversation Starter Questions on Sexuality
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  • In Memory of Fr. Tom Ogg
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    Get Real!

    October 30, 2023 / 3 Comments

    How does one describe a Journey without talking about the people who walk with you and influence your passage through life. Fr. Tom Ogg was one such companion and his message to “Get Real!” has been emblazoned on our hearts.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Marriage Wake-Up Calls

    August 7, 2023

    Yelping My Spouse Round One

    April 20, 2026

    Coasting

    April 12, 2026
  • Perseverance,  Stress,  Time

    Life Outside Our Comfort Zone

    September 24, 2023 / No Comments

    Life outside our comfort zone has benefits. When we challenge ourselves to step outside our comfort zone, it brings growth and fulfillment. Unfortunately, the fear of failure can sometimes keep us in the safe zone.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Are We Broken?

    September 26, 2021

    Keeping Your Marriage Sane While Quarantined

    March 30, 2020
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    What is the Secret to a Happy Marriage?

    February 27, 2022
  • Communication

    Say What You Mean, Mean What You Say

    August 13, 2023 / 1 Comment

    Seriously, Don’t hide the chocolate! Lesson learned: “Say what you mean. Mean what you say.”

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    How to Resolve Disagreements in Marriage

    June 30, 2025

    Marriage Manners Matter

    June 17, 2019

    Not All Habits Are Bad

    April 10, 2022
  • Decision to Love

    Mud in the Backyard

    July 9, 2023 / No Comments

    Mud in the backyard. You might think there is a metaphor in that. Maybe there is.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Love’s Sweet Spot

    March 9, 2020

    A Plea For Real Men

    November 23, 2020

    I Could Use Some Help!

    September 7, 2020
  • Uncategorized

    Sacrificing in Marriage Can Lead to Resentment

    May 22, 2023 / No Comments

    Marriage often requires and benefits from sacrifice. It is a willingness to put your partner’s needs above your own. In a study published in 2021, it was shown that sacrificing in a marriage can lead to resentment and other ‘hidden costs’ like anger and guilt.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    A Life Well Lived is an Unfinished Symphony

    February 23, 2025

    Hibernation Is For Bears

    October 18, 2021

    Life is Full of Risks

    March 6, 2023
  • Grief,  Honesty,  Making Decisions,  Stress

    Out of the Mouth of Babes

    April 16, 2023 / No Comments

    Out of the Mouth of Babes . . . Several weeks ago, we got a 7-month old standard poodle, Jazzy. Our 2 cats were quite perturbed as they had not been included in the decision. They were rampant with emotion and the cat tree became their safe haven.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    The World Turned Upside-Down

    October 13, 2025
    writing a letter about what I love about you Just. Do. It.

    Just. Do. It.

    October 9, 2023

    5 Things I Wish I’d Done Differently

    June 26, 2023
  • Uncategorized

    Life is Full of Risks

    March 6, 2023 / 2 Comments

    Life is full of Risks. Financial, emotional, and physical – we take them all the time. There is nothing more endearing than hearing, “Again! Again! Again!” after swinging a toddler in the air. Children instinctively take risks. As we age, risk taking becomes intentional, calculated and requires effort, but staying in the safe zone is also taking a risk.

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    Memorial Day 2025

    May 26, 2025

    It Don’t Come Easy

    April 1, 2024
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    F.I.N.E.

    September 6, 2021
  • Accountability,  Differences

    Opposites Don’t Attract — They Attack

    January 29, 2023 / 1 Comment

    Let’s debunk the myth that “Opposites attract” once and for all. We are attracted to our spouse because they complement us. They bring completeness to our lives. In a relationship completeness is more than finding the missing piece to a puzzle. When the puzzle is done, it’s satisfying, but no longer fun and interesting.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Practice What You Preach

    March 3, 2025
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    Choose Your Hard

    October 10, 2022

    More Than a Piece of Paper

    July 19, 2021
  • Uncategorized

    Have New Year’s Resolutions Become Cliche?

    December 26, 2022 / No Comments

    Millions of people make New Year’s resolutions. Some make the same resolution year after year. It doesn’t take statistics to show we are not great at keeping them. Have New Year’s resolutions become cliche? Or are we making the wrong resolutions, or the right resolutions but for the wrong reasons?

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Happy New Year!

    December 29, 2024

    5 Lessons for a Howl of a Good Time

    June 14, 2021
    Merry Christmas

    Merry Christmas!

    December 23, 2024
  • Behaviors,  Communication,  Honesty,  Making Decisions,  Playfulness,  Stress,  Time

    3 Tips to Reduce Holiday Stress

    November 14, 2022 / No Comments

    Like it or not, the Holidays are upon us. Jack-o-Lanterns may still be on the porches, but Christmas will be here before we know it. Here are 3 practical tips to reduce Holiday stress and find Joy as the Countdown to Christmas continues.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Speaking In Code

    January 23, 2023

    Love & Respect

    April 8, 2024
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    The Busy Train

    January 15, 2024
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