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  • Uncategorized

    Be Curious

    December 17, 2023 / 1 Comment

    Oh, to Be Curious like a child. If you have young kids or grandchildren, you know what we mean. “Why” and “How” are innocent questions, filled with wonder and awe. Pure curiosity.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Merry Christmas

    Merry Christmas!

    December 23, 2024

    Marriage is a Minefield

    May 22, 2022

    The Power of Gratitude in Marriage

    November 17, 2024
  • Accountability

    Get Real!

    October 30, 2023 / 3 Comments

    How does one describe a Journey without talking about the people who walk with you and influence your passage through life. Fr. Tom Ogg was one such companion and his message to “Get Real!” has been emblazoned on our hearts.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    More Than a Piece of Paper

    July 19, 2021

    Are We Scrolling by Our Relationship?

    November 26, 2023

    Opposites Don’t Attract — They Attack

    January 29, 2023
  • Perseverance,  Stress,  Time

    Life Outside Our Comfort Zone

    September 24, 2023 / No Comments

    Life outside our comfort zone has benefits. When we challenge ourselves to step outside our comfort zone, it brings growth and fulfillment. Unfortunately, the fear of failure can sometimes keep us in the safe zone.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    We’re Not Perfect and That’s Normal

    May 18, 2020
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    Marriage – the Olympics of Relationships

    February 23, 2026

    Does Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder?

    September 10, 2023
  • Communication

    Say What You Mean, Mean What You Say

    August 13, 2023 / 1 Comment

    Seriously, Don’t hide the chocolate! Lesson learned: “Say what you mean. Mean what you say.”

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Stale Crackers

    November 2, 2020
    Common marriage mistakes

    Top 10 Tips to Ruin Your Marriage 

    March 23, 2026

    Marriage is a Minefield

    May 22, 2022
  • Decision to Love

    Mud in the Backyard

    July 9, 2023 / No Comments

    Mud in the backyard. You might think there is a metaphor in that. Maybe there is.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Spring cleaning

    Spring Cleaning

    March 31, 2025

    Keeping Your Marriage Sane While Quarantined

    March 30, 2020

    Happy Holidays? In 2020? Yes!

    December 14, 2020
  • Grief,  Honesty,  Making Decisions,  Stress

    Out of the Mouth of Babes

    April 16, 2023 / No Comments

    Out of the Mouth of Babes . . . Several weeks ago, we got a 7-month old standard poodle, Jazzy. Our 2 cats were quite perturbed as they had not been included in the decision. They were rampant with emotion and the cat tree became their safe haven.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Rewind

    September 26, 2022

    Grieving in Isolation

    May 11, 2020

    So Over COVID!

    May 25, 2020
  • Uncategorized

    Life is Full of Risks

    March 6, 2023 / 2 Comments

    Life is full of Risks. Financial, emotional, and physical – we take them all the time. There is nothing more endearing than hearing, “Again! Again! Again!” after swinging a toddler in the air. Children instinctively take risks. As we age, risk taking becomes intentional, calculated and requires effort, but staying in the safe zone is also taking a risk.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Be Curious

    December 17, 2023

    Marriage Lessons Learned from Tango

    May 5, 2025

    A Life Well Lived is an Unfinished Symphony

    February 23, 2025
  • Accountability,  Differences

    Opposites Don’t Attract — They Attack

    January 29, 2023 / 1 Comment

    Let’s debunk the myth that “Opposites attract” once and for all. We are attracted to our spouse because they complement us. They bring completeness to our lives. In a relationship completeness is more than finding the missing piece to a puzzle. When the puzzle is done, it’s satisfying, but no longer fun and interesting.

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    Candid Chris

    March 7, 2022

    Does Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder?

    September 10, 2023
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    In Sickness and In Health

    September 20, 2021
  • Uncategorized

    Have New Year’s Resolutions Become Cliche?

    December 26, 2022 / No Comments

    Millions of people make New Year’s resolutions. Some make the same resolution year after year. It doesn’t take statistics to show we are not great at keeping them. Have New Year’s resolutions become cliche? Or are we making the wrong resolutions, or the right resolutions but for the wrong reasons?

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Happy Thanksgiving

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 20, 2023

    Celebrate!

    July 1, 2024
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    Little Things Mean a Lot

    December 1, 2025
  • Behaviors,  Communication,  Honesty,  Making Decisions,  Playfulness,  Stress,  Time

    3 Tips to Reduce Holiday Stress

    November 14, 2022 / No Comments

    Like it or not, the Holidays are upon us. Jack-o-Lanterns may still be on the porches, but Christmas will be here before we know it. Here are 3 practical tips to reduce Holiday stress and find Joy as the Countdown to Christmas continues.

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    Loving Each Other in Spite of Our Differences

    Loving Each Other in Spite of Our Differences

    April 4, 2022

    In Sickness and In Health

    August 15, 2022
    A clean slate

    A Clean Slate

    January 2, 2023
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