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  • Communication,  Conflict,  Decision to Love,  Differences,  Making Decisions

    The Benefit of the Doubt

    August 31, 2020 / No Comments

    Courtesy of Pixabay via Pexels The image of a pebble dropped into a still pond is a powerful one for many people. It is a visual representation of the idea that one small act can have a “ripple effect.” It can spread out and be carried across the water of our life and the lives of those around us further than we may perceive. Giving the benefit of the doubt can be that pebble in your relationship with your spouse.

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    Nick and Jen

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    Getting Teens to Talk

    February 2, 2020

    Finding Peace

    August 30, 2026

    Advice From a Divorce Lawyer

    March 4, 2019
  • Communication,  Conflict,  Decision to Love,  Differences,  Perseverance,  Romance,  Time

    Annual Marriage Tune-Up

    August 23, 2020 / No Comments

    A number of years ago, some friends of ours told us about a little trick they use to keep their marriage healthy, strong, and vibrant. Every year, they pledge to attend some kind of marriage enrichment event together. According to our friends, this does not mean weekend getaways to the beach, skiing, or going to a bed and breakfast together.

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    Paul and Stephanie

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    Overcoming Apathy in our Marriage

    October 12, 2020

    We Are More Than a Single Story

    December 12, 2022
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    Beyond biology: Where Do Babies Come From?

    August 3, 2021
  • Communication,  Decision to Love,  Making Decisions

    Dream a Little Dream With Me

    August 3, 2020 / 2 Comments

      “You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.”    Dr. Seuss  July 20, 2020. John: What seemed like an ordinary Monday was anything but, all because of the vows we made to each other exactly 29 years prior. As Julie’s brother called to wish us a happy anniversary, he congratulated us and commented that we were “living the dream.” You know what? He was right.

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    John and Julie

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    Our Ketchup Story

    September 2, 2019

    A Plea For Real Men

    November 23, 2020

    Ready for a Marriage Check-up?

    February 16, 2026
  • Communication,  Decision to Love,  Differences,  Romance,  Sex

    8 Misunderstandings That Are Hurting Your Sex Life

    July 19, 2020 / No Comments

    Why are we writing about sex again?  Sex in marriage is more important than most people think.  It’s mysterious. There are a lot of “layers” and complexities to this whole topic…. read on…

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    Ken and Janine

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    How to FIX Your Spouse

    July 12, 2020
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    The World Turned Upside-Down

    October 13, 2025

    I Can’t Change My Spouse

    August 7, 2022
  • Communication,  Conflict,  Differences,  Perseverance

    How to FIX Your Spouse

    July 12, 2020 / No Comments

    Photo by Alex Jumper Does your spouse do anything that absolutely drives you nuts? Would you like to know how to “fix” them once and for all? Read on.

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    Paul and Stephanie

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    Just Go To Bed

    March 11, 2024

    Advice From a Divorce Lawyer

    March 4, 2019

    Why Go It Alone

    April 3, 2023
  • Decision to Love,  Perseverance

    Going to Bat for Your Spouse

    June 22, 2020 / No Comments

    “There’s a bat in the house!” John: Sometimes life presents unexpected opportunities for closeness.  A few Sundays ago, a bat suddenly appeared, swooping and darting around the family room before settling into a hanging position above the fireplace.

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    John and Julie

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    The Kindness Challenge

    January 4, 2026

    Ready for a Marriage Check-up?

    February 16, 2026

    Verbal Judo – Harmonizing Your Tone of Voice

    January 9, 2021
  • Communication,  Decision to Love,  Relatives

    Reaching Out – Together

    April 20, 2020 / No Comments

    JULIE: During this bizarre time when we are all quarantined, I need reassurance that our friends and family members are safe and in a good place mentally. This is especially true of our young adult kids who are not only dealing with social isolation, but also unemployment. I also worry about our parents and siblings, especially my dad as he lives alone.

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    John and Julie

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    Time for a Marriage Getaway? “Here’s Yer Sign”

    October 28, 2019

    The Benefit of the Doubt

    August 31, 2020
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    The Super-Power of Affirmation

    February 26, 2024
  • Children,  Communication,  Decision to Love,  Perseverance,  Time

    Keeping Your Marriage Sane While Quarantined

    March 30, 2020 / No Comments

    Jen: Being quarantined and trying to limit your exposure to others is one thing and having kids at home adds another dimension. So many parents are trying to make a living and unexpectedly take care of their kids at home at the same time. No matter what your situation is, being quarantined at home can add stresses on your couple relationship that you haven’t experienced before.

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    Nick and Jen

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    Was it Bad Parenting or Making Memories?

    October 31, 2022

    Parenting 101 – United We Stand

    October 29, 2019
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    Boomerang Baby

    June 20, 2022
  • Communication,  Perseverance,  Stress,  Time

    Marriage Under Quarantine

    March 23, 2020 / 2 Comments

    This week we created a fun video to get you re-focused on your relationship while locked in quarantine together. Click on video below! Leave a comment on the creative ways you’re growing your relationship during the coronavirus outbreak!

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    Ken and Janine

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    Making Up is Hard to Do

    June 21, 2018

    Anger, Over the Top

    July 15, 2019

    Marriage is a VERB

    March 11, 2019
  • Communication,  Conflict,  Decision to Love,  Time

    Love’s Sweet Spot

    March 9, 2020 / No Comments

    Photo Credit: Jose Mizrahi on Unsplash Many of you are familiar with theYin-Yang symbol or the phrase “opposites attract.”  You know, the eternal optimist vs. the pessimist, the spontaneous adventurer vs. the live by the calendar person.  Let’s call them complementary, not opposite.  Think:  You are the peanut butter to my jelly or the music to my dancing shoes.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    April 12, 2021

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    January 26, 2019

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