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    A Life Well Lived is an Unfinished Symphony

    February 23, 2025 / No Comments

    It has been said that Life is a Grand Symphony. This is certainly true of our lives as married couples. It has also been phrased “A Life Well Lived is an Unfinished Symphony.” And we recently heard it said in reference to Martin Luther King, Jr. that if your life is not an unfinished symphony — “You ain’t dreaming big enough.”

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Uh Oh, I Really Stepped In It Now

    February 16, 2025 / No Comments

    It’s inevitable. At some point you’re going to experience that “Oh, crap” moment of realizing you’ve forgotten something important or done something stupid. But fear not – you’re not alone.

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    Nick and Jen

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    May 22, 2022

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    June 5, 2022
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    Happy New Year!

    December 29, 2024 / No Comments

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    Nick and Jen

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    Have a Safe and Happy Labor Day!

    September 2, 2024
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    F.I.N.E.

    September 6, 2021

    Happy 250th birthday, America!

    June 30, 2026
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    Merry Christmas!

    December 23, 2024 / No Comments

    May the magic of Christmas live in your hearts and in your marriage every day. Merry Christmas from our Couples Post family to yours.

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    John and Julie

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    Gratitude — It’s All Around US

    November 22, 2021

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    May 1, 2023

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    March 31, 2026
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    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 25, 2024 / 3 Comments

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    Ken and Janine

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    The Power of Gratitude in Marriage

    November 17, 2024 / No Comments

    Sharing gratitude for a spouse is the most important predictor of the quality of marriage. This study shows expressing thanks for your partner can protect your marriage from the toxic effects of conflict and hardship. This is true even in the face of financial stress or negative communication patterns. The Many Benefits of Sharing Gratitude Gratitude expresses appreciation for what you have. This is in contrast to constantly reaching for something new hoping it will make you happier.    Simply sharing gratitude can lead to increase in physical health and happiness as noted in this study Studies have also shown there are relationship benefits to gratitude such as: In a healthy…

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    June 14, 2021
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    December 23, 2024
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    Autumn is Proof that Change is Beautiful

    October 6, 2024 / No Comments

    “Autumn is proof that change is beautiful” was a quote we saw at Hobby Lobby last month. I told Tom, I don’t think I would ever use change and beautiful in the same sentence. But this quote has stuck with me like an ear worm.

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    Have a Safe and Happy Labor Day!

    September 2, 2024 / No Comments

    From our Couples Post family to yours, we wish you a safe and happy Labor Day celebrating with friends and family!

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    John and Julie

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    May 1, 2023
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    The Shoe is on the Other Foot

    August 18, 2024 / 1 Comment

    The Shoe is on the Other Foot is a ‘fitting’ idiom for our lives and has challenged us to change our perspective. Tom has been nursing an arthritic right ankle, slowing our pace and impacting our lifestyle. I recently fell and broke my left foot and needed a little ‘nursing’ myself. I have not been a very patient patient. At our best, we have joked about tying our bum legs together and crossing the finish line in O-limpic fashion.

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    Celebrate!

    July 1, 2024 / No Comments

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    Ken and Janine

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