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  • Uncategorized

    Celebrate!

    July 1, 2024 / No Comments

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    Ken and Janine

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    Blessings to You From The Couples Post

    December 25, 2025

    Marriage is a Minefield

    May 22, 2022

    Have New Year’s Resolutions Become Cliche?

    December 26, 2022
  • Uncategorized

    Gift Giving: Buck the Status Quo

    May 12, 2024 / No Comments

    Gift giving can be a challenge. It can evoke a sense of duty and meets a societal norm. Both carry a lot of pressure. This post gives ideas on creativity and ways to ‘Buck the status quo.’ It reminds us that the circle of love in gift giving is completed only when gifts are received with gratitude.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    October 5, 2025

    Memorial Day 2025

    May 26, 2025

    The Kindness Challenge

    January 4, 2026
  • Happiness,  Perseverance,  Resilience,  Transformation,  Trust,  Uncategorized,  Vulnerability

    It Don’t Come Easy

    April 1, 2024 / No Comments

    “It don’t come easy” has been an ear-worm for us this year. It has become a positive force for reflection in our lives and journey. Sometimes it is the curve balls from left field that awaken us to the beauty that has been given to us. We only need to reframe the picture.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    July 17, 2023
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    Dream a Little Dream with Me

    August 1, 2022
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    The Spontaneity Spark

    May 16, 2022
  • Uncategorized

    In Sickness and in Health… Even During Cold and Flu Season

    March 17, 2024 / No Comments

    On our wedding day, we looked deeply into each other’s eyes and promised, among other things, to be true to each other in sickness and in health… all the days of our lives. While the two of us take that vow seriously, we have discovered over the years that it is not always easy. Especially during cold and flu season. Suffice it to say we do not suffer minor illnesses in the same way. Suck It Up Karen: Perhaps you have heard the joke that the closest a woman will ever come to knowing what it is like for a man suffering from a common cold is when she is…

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    Scott and Karen

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    Have a Blessed Holy Week

    March 31, 2026

    The Shoe is on the Other Foot

    August 18, 2024

    Will It Matter Tomorrow?

    August 21, 2022
  • Happiness,  Time,  Uncategorized

    Our Anti-Resolution List

    January 1, 2024 / 1 Comment

    This post originally appeared on The Couples Post in Jan. 2022. We decided to re-post it this week as it offers some great ideas to ponder. Everyone at The Couples Post would like to wish our readers a Happy and Healthy 2024. Every New Year, articles pop up about making resolutions. This year, we have taken some common resolutions and would like to propose our own list.  We are calling it Our Anti-Resolutions List  5. New vs. Old One of the most popular resolutions is to travel to NEW places. While we are a big supporter of seeking new adventures, in our anti-resolutions list, we offer, rediscovering the OLD places you have traveled to. Who cares that…

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    Chris and Michelle

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    What’s Your Spouse’s Love Language? 

    June 22, 2026
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    The Spontaneity Spark

    May 16, 2022

    What Was Your Success Today?

    November 3, 2025
  • Uncategorized
    December 25, 2023 / 1 Comment

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    Ken and Janine

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    Autumn is Proof that Change is Beautiful

    October 6, 2024
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    F.I.N.E.

    September 6, 2021

    Happy 250th birthday, America!

    June 30, 2026
  • Uncategorized

    Be Curious

    December 17, 2023 / 1 Comment

    Oh, to Be Curious like a child. If you have young kids or grandchildren, you know what we mean. “Why” and “How” are innocent questions, filled with wonder and awe. Pure curiosity.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    Lessons Learned We Have

    May 1, 2023

    Sleeping with the Loser

    March 1, 2026

    Into the Weeds Naked

    October 5, 2025
  • Uncategorized

    5 Bite Sized Ways to Become Better

    December 12, 2023 / 3 Comments

    Chris: Human beings are the only species on the planet who believe that we can be better today than we were yesterday.  Still, many of us struggle to actually be better.  Here are five ways to begin.  One: Let Go Of Pre-existing Ideas that Do Not Make Sense to You. My mother-in-law once said that she couldn’t eat pizza unless she had a knife and fork to cut it with.  I asked, “Have you ever just picked up a slice and ate it?”  She looked disgusted.  But, when the pizza came to the table, there were no knives. As we waited for her knife, I said, “Are we really going to waste a perfectly good pizza?”  She…

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    Chris and Michelle

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    The Spontaneity Spark

    May 16, 2022

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    May 5, 2025

    Have a Blessed Holy Week

    March 31, 2026
  • Happy Thanksgiving
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    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 20, 2023 / No Comments

    Happy Thanksgiving from the Couples Post! We hope that however you celebrate with your loved ones that you have a wonderful week. We will return with another post next week.

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    Nick and Jen

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    Be Curious

    December 17, 2023

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    Making Decisions as a Couple is a 3-Legged Race

    June 5, 2022
  • Uncategorized

    Lessons Learned We Have

    May 1, 2023 / 1 Comment

    Chris: I may be a bit biased, but I think very few movie franchises have had the global reach that Star Wars has. With their relatable characters, incredible fight scenes and ethical dilemmas, Star Wars has something for everyone.  I think my wife, on the other hand, only watches because she knows how much I enjoy them.  So, imagine my surprise, when Michelle said, “I think some of the lessons in Star Wars could be applicable to marriage.” My heart burst with pride and I couldn’t wait to get started.  So, travel with us to a galaxy far, far away and we will share marriage lessons learned from Star Wars. Michelle: Lesson One:  It is…

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    Chris and Michelle

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    Have a Safe and Happy Labor Day!

    September 2, 2024

    Happy 250th birthday, America!

    June 30, 2026
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    Little Things Mean a Lot

    December 1, 2025
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