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    Autumn is Proof that Change is Beautiful

    October 6, 2024 / No Comments

    “Autumn is proof that change is beautiful” was a quote we saw at Hobby Lobby last month. I told Tom, I don’t think I would ever use change and beautiful in the same sentence. But this quote has stuck with me like an ear worm.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    December 12, 2023

    Don’t Roll Your Eyes and Say Whatever

    April 6, 2025
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    Have a Safe and Happy Labor Day!

    September 2, 2024 / No Comments

    From our Couples Post family to yours, we wish you a safe and happy Labor Day celebrating with friends and family!

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    John and Julie

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    April 6, 2025

    Hibernation Is For Bears

    October 18, 2021

    The Power of Gratitude in Marriage

    November 17, 2024
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    The Shoe is on the Other Foot

    August 18, 2024 / 1 Comment

    The Shoe is on the Other Foot is a ‘fitting’ idiom for our lives and has challenged us to change our perspective. Tom has been nursing an arthritic right ankle, slowing our pace and impacting our lifestyle. I recently fell and broke my left foot and needed a little ‘nursing’ myself. I have not been a very patient patient. At our best, we have joked about tying our bum legs together and crossing the finish line in O-limpic fashion.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    December 1, 2025

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    February 16, 2025
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    Celebrate!

    July 1, 2024 / No Comments

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    Ken and Janine

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    January 4, 2026
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    November 20, 2023
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    Gift Giving: Buck the Status Quo

    May 12, 2024 / No Comments

    Gift giving can be a challenge. It can evoke a sense of duty and meets a societal norm. Both carry a lot of pressure. This post gives ideas on creativity and ways to ‘Buck the status quo.’ It reminds us that the circle of love in gift giving is completed only when gifts are received with gratitude.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    December 25, 2025
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    It Don’t Come Easy

    April 1, 2024 / No Comments

    “It don’t come easy” has been an ear-worm for us this year. It has become a positive force for reflection in our lives and journey. Sometimes it is the curve balls from left field that awaken us to the beauty that has been given to us. We only need to reframe the picture.

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    June 16, 2025
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    May 29, 2023
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    Little Things

    January 24, 2022
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    In Sickness and in Health… Even During Cold and Flu Season

    March 17, 2024 / No Comments

    On our wedding day, we looked deeply into each other’s eyes and promised, among other things, to be true to each other in sickness and in health… all the days of our lives. While the two of us take that vow seriously, we have discovered over the years that it is not always easy. Especially during cold and flu season. Suffice it to say we do not suffer minor illnesses in the same way. Suck It Up Karen: Perhaps you have heard the joke that the closest a woman will ever come to knowing what it is like for a man suffering from a common cold is when she is…

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    Scott and Karen

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    Our Anti-Resolution List

    January 1, 2024 / 1 Comment

    This post originally appeared on The Couples Post in Jan. 2022. We decided to re-post it this week as it offers some great ideas to ponder. Everyone at The Couples Post would like to wish our readers a Happy and Healthy 2024. Every New Year, articles pop up about making resolutions. This year, we have taken some common resolutions and would like to propose our own list.  We are calling it Our Anti-Resolutions List  5. New vs. Old One of the most popular resolutions is to travel to NEW places. While we are a big supporter of seeking new adventures, in our anti-resolutions list, we offer, rediscovering the OLD places you have traveled to. Who cares that…

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    December 25, 2023 / 1 Comment

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    Be Curious

    December 17, 2023 / 1 Comment

    Oh, to Be Curious like a child. If you have young kids or grandchildren, you know what we mean. “Why” and “How” are innocent questions, filled with wonder and awe. Pure curiosity.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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