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  • The Power of Positive: Examples of Converting Negatives about our Relationship to Positives
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  • Forgiveness,  Perseverance,  Resilience,  Vulnerability

    Angel With a Broken Wing

    January 19, 2025 / 1 Comment

    The Angel With a Broken Wing caught my attention. She sat on the front porch of Tom’s sister’s house for as long as I could remember and was a welcoming presence to all who entered.

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    Tom and Mary Frances

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    The 7 Best Things We’ve Done for Our Marriage

    June 3, 2019
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    To Be, or Not To Be…Right?

    September 8, 2025

    Haven’t we had this fight before?

    October 21, 2019
  • Uncategorized

    The Power of Gratitude in Marriage

    November 17, 2024 / No Comments

    Sharing gratitude for a spouse is the most important predictor of the quality of marriage. This study shows expressing thanks for your partner can protect your marriage from the toxic effects of conflict and hardship. This is true even in the face of financial stress or negative communication patterns. The Many Benefits of Sharing Gratitude Gratitude expresses appreciation for what you have. This is in contrast to constantly reaching for something new hoping it will make you happier.    Simply sharing gratitude can lead to increase in physical health and happiness as noted in this study Studies have also shown there are relationship benefits to gratitude such as: In a healthy…

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    The Shoe is on the Other Foot

    August 18, 2024
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    Merry Christmas!

    December 23, 2024

    5 Bite Sized Ways to Become Better

    December 12, 2023
  • Uncategorized

    Autumn is Proof that Change is Beautiful

    October 6, 2024 / No Comments

    “Autumn is proof that change is beautiful” was a quote we saw at Hobby Lobby last month. I told Tom, I don’t think I would ever use change and beautiful in the same sentence. But this quote has stuck with me like an ear worm.

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    December 25, 2023

    Lessons Learned We Have

    May 1, 2023

    Into the Weeds Naked

    October 5, 2025
  • Uncategorized

    The Shoe is on the Other Foot

    August 18, 2024 / 1 Comment

    The Shoe is on the Other Foot is a ‘fitting’ idiom for our lives and has challenged us to change our perspective. Tom has been nursing an arthritic right ankle, slowing our pace and impacting our lifestyle. I recently fell and broke my left foot and needed a little ‘nursing’ myself. I have not been a very patient patient. At our best, we have joked about tying our bum legs together and crossing the finish line in O-limpic fashion.

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    It Don’t Come Easy

    April 1, 2024

    Sacrificing in Marriage Can Lead to Resentment

    May 22, 2023
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    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 20, 2023
  • Uncategorized

    Gift Giving: Buck the Status Quo

    May 12, 2024 / No Comments

    Gift giving can be a challenge. It can evoke a sense of duty and meets a societal norm. Both carry a lot of pressure. This post gives ideas on creativity and ways to ‘Buck the status quo.’ It reminds us that the circle of love in gift giving is completed only when gifts are received with gratitude.

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    Little Things Mean a Lot

    December 1, 2025

    Sacrificing in Marriage Can Lead to Resentment

    May 22, 2023
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    Gratitude — It’s All Around US

    November 22, 2021
  • Happiness,  Perseverance,  Resilience,  Transformation,  Trust,  Uncategorized,  Vulnerability

    It Don’t Come Easy

    April 1, 2024 / No Comments

    “It don’t come easy” has been an ear-worm for us this year. It has become a positive force for reflection in our lives and journey. Sometimes it is the curve balls from left field that awaken us to the beauty that has been given to us. We only need to reframe the picture.

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    The Joy of Volunteering Together

    March 16, 2025
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    Celebrate Good Times – Come On!

    September 12, 2022
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    Kudos To The Tired Dad

    March 24, 2025
  • Decision to Love

    Ahh, Leap Year, 366 Days to Love Your Lover

    February 11, 2024 / No Comments

    Happy Valentines Day to Our Readers! Leap Year is a gift! An extra day to Love Your Lover. If you are reading this on Monday, you may be scrambling to find roses that won’t cost a small fortune for Valentine’s Day or find a babysitter for that special dinner. Good Luck! If you are reading this on Saturday morning over a cup of coffee and that fancy Valentine’s date is a warm glow in the rear-view mirror, Read on.

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    Why Go It Alone

    April 3, 2023
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    The Game of Life

    July 12, 2021

    Competition vs Unity in Marriage

    January 15, 2023
  • Uncategorized

    Be Curious

    December 17, 2023 / 1 Comment

    Oh, to Be Curious like a child. If you have young kids or grandchildren, you know what we mean. “Why” and “How” are innocent questions, filled with wonder and awe. Pure curiosity.

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    December 25, 2023

    Have New Year’s Resolutions Become Cliche?

    December 26, 2022

    The Power of Gratitude in Marriage

    November 17, 2024
  • Accountability

    Get Real!

    October 30, 2023 / 3 Comments

    How does one describe a Journey without talking about the people who walk with you and influence your passage through life. Fr. Tom Ogg was one such companion and his message to “Get Real!” has been emblazoned on our hearts.

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    Are We Scrolling by Our Relationship?

    November 26, 2023
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    Choose Your Hard

    October 10, 2022

    Boosting the Bright Side

    July 26, 2021
  • Perseverance,  Stress,  Time

    Life Outside Our Comfort Zone

    September 24, 2023 / No Comments

    Life outside our comfort zone has benefits. When we challenge ourselves to step outside our comfort zone, it brings growth and fulfillment. Unfortunately, the fear of failure can sometimes keep us in the safe zone.

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    Marriage – the Olympics of Relationships

    February 23, 2026

    What Happened to the Person I Married?

    January 20, 2020

    Are We Broken?

    September 26, 2021
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