Photo Credit: Tim Foster on Unsplash Be vulnerable in sharing your feelings, not just your thoughts with your spouse. Stop what you are doing and really listen to your spouse.  Listen with your eyes. Put down your cell phones during dinner.  Focus on each other. In the morning ask your spouse what he/she needs most from you that day. Carve out time in the evening before you are too tired to share the best and the worst of your day.  Comfort and affirm each other.   Pray for your spouse. Pray together for each other. Share your goals, hopes and dreams for your marriage, for your children. Send non-agenda texts…