What’s the one thing (or things) you and your spouse don’t talk about?   Maybe it’s money, in-laws, or sex?    Uncomfortable Topics JANINE: Sometimes I avoid talking to Ken about how I spend my time.  I want him to see me as responsible and productive.  When I’m lazy or judge that I haven’t accomplished enough, I feel guilty and frustrated with myself.  I don’t want to talk to Ken about this because I’m scared he might agree with my judgment of myself as being lazy.  I cover up my guilt by making excuses. I put up an extra layer of protection by portraying an attitude of ‘I’m tough and have everything under…